Nervous about making a bad impression at a holiday party? Don't be. Far fewer people than you think will even perceive if you make a social flub.
At least that's what a study revealed when college students were asked to don a Barry Manilow T-shirt before entering a room full of people. Here's how many people actually noticed.
Attention Getter?
Despite the college students' worst fears, only about half the people they expected to actually did notice the famed "Copacabana" singer emblazoned across their chests. Researchers dub this situation the "spotlight effect." What it means is that in social situations, people tend to grossly overestimate how much others are paying attention to their actions or appearance. (Are you always anxious? Answer these questions to see if you worry too much.)
The takeaway lesson? Whether you're having a bad hair day, living with a little coffee stain on your shirt, or feeling like a lackluster conversationalist, don't stress! All eyes aren't upon you.
3 More Stress-Less Social Tips for the Holidays
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At least that's what a study revealed when college students were asked to don a Barry Manilow T-shirt before entering a room full of people. Here's how many people actually noticed.
Attention Getter?
Despite the college students' worst fears, only about half the people they expected to actually did notice the famed "Copacabana" singer emblazoned across their chests. Researchers dub this situation the "spotlight effect." What it means is that in social situations, people tend to grossly overestimate how much others are paying attention to their actions or appearance. (Are you always anxious? Answer these questions to see if you worry too much.)
The takeaway lesson? Whether you're having a bad hair day, living with a little coffee stain on your shirt, or feeling like a lackluster conversationalist, don't stress! All eyes aren't upon you.
3 More Stress-Less Social Tips for the Holidays
- Do lots of this at every get together -- you'll be healthier and happier.
- Spend a few minutes each day doing this easy stress-reduction strategy.
- Take these six steps whenever something stresses you out.
RealAge Benefit: Taking care of your emotional health and well-being can make your RealAge up to 16 years younger.
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