Treatment Overview
Most children gain bladder control over time without any treatment. Bed-wetting that continues past the age that most children have nighttime bladder control—typically at 5 or 6 years of age—also will usually stop over time without treatment. If not, home treatment may be all that is needed to help a child stop wetting the bed. Home treatment may include:
- Monitoring when and how much your child drinks. Give your child most of his or her needed fluids in the morning and afternoon.
- Restricting your child's intake of caffeine, especially at night.
- Having your child use the toilet before going to bed.
- Reminding your child to get up during the night to go to the bathroom.
- Letting the child help solve the problem, if he or she is older than 4.
- Offering your child disposable nighttime training underpants. Don't force a child to wear them, but if you are both comfortable with using them, there is no reason not to.
- Praising and rewarding the child for dry nights.
If home treatment is unsuccessful, if the child and parents need assistance, or if the bed-wetting may be caused by a medical condition, medical treatment may be helpful. The goal of medical treatment is to decrease the frequency of bed-wetting and to increase the child's use of the toilet at night if needed. Eventually bed-wetting will stop completely, but this may not happen immediately after treatment.
- Treatment is considered successful if the child remains dry for 14 nights in a row within 16 weeks of treatment.
- Treatment is considered a complete success if the child does not have any accidental wettings for 2 years after treatment.
- Children who have an increase in accidental wettings after treatment are considered to have relapsed. A relapse is defined as more than 2 wet nights in 2 weeks. The most likely time for a child to relapse is within the first 6 months after treatment. If a child relapses after stopping a successful therapy, that same therapy usually is repeated.
Medical treatment for bed-wetting may include:
- Education for the parents and child about what is normal and expected for children as they grow and about how the urinary system works.
- Motivational therapy. This method involves parents encouraging and reinforcing a child's sense of control over bed-wetting.
- Moisture alarms, which detect wetness in the child's underpants during sleep and sound an alarm to wake the child.
- Desmopressin and tricyclic antidepressant medicines. These medicines, which increase the amount of urine that the bladder can hold or decrease the amount of urine released by the kidneys, may help some children.
Treatment for bed-wetting is based on the:
- Child's age. Some treatments work better than others for children of a specific age group.
- Child's and parents' attitudes about the bed-wetting. If gaining bladder control is seen as a normal process, it is usually easier for the child to stop bed-wetting.
- Home situation. If the child shares a bedroom with other children, certain techniques to arouse the child, such as dry-bed training or some moisture alarms, may not be practical.
Treatment for bed-wetting may be helpful if bed-wetting is affecting a child's self-esteem, performance in school, or relationships with peers.
The best solution is often a combination of treatments. Below are some suggestions for treatment options according to the age of your child.
- Ages 5 to 8: Help your child understand that wetting the bed is a normal part of growing up. Encouragement and praise may be all that is needed to help your child wake up before wetting. Children in this age group should be praised for dry nights and should take an active role in cleaning up after wetting.
- Ages 8 to 11: If your child still wets the bed, a moisture alarm may be a successful treatment option. It can be used in combination with occasional use of a medicine such as desmopressin, which can be helpful for social events such as camp or sleepovers.
- Age 12 and older: There can be significant emotional effects if bed-wetting persists at this age, so treatment can be more aggressive. If consistent use of moisture alarms does not work, the doctor may suggest medicine.
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What about treatment for daytime wetting?
Accidental daytime wetting may be a normal part of a child's development, or it may indicate a medical condition. If your child has any symptoms of a medical condition, he or she should be evaluated by a health professional.
What To Think About
Studies show moisture alarms to be the most effective single treatment for bed-wetting.
Medicines for bed-wetting are usually used in combination with other methods of treatment. They are not as successful as other treatments in helping children gain complete bladder control, so medicines should be used after other measures have been tried first. Medicines may be most helpful in the following situations:
- To help older children control bed-wetting for short periods of time, such as for camp or overnight trips
- To treat bed-wetting that is related to a stressful event, such as the divorce of the child's parents or the birth of a sibling
Often a child who has responded successfully to treatment will begin to wet again after treatment has stopped. But most children who relapse can be treated successfully with a repeat of the original program, especially if that program is based on behavior modification, such as using a moisture alarm.
