Are you concerned that your parent's driving may be a safety concern? Follow these steps addressing the issue with your parent.

• Monitor and document your parent's poor driving if you suspect there's been physical or mental impairment. Discuss your findings with doctors and your parent to see if some medical adjustment can make it possible for Mom or Dad to drive safely.

• Come up with reasonable options if your parent shouldn't drive. If you aren't available to drive, arrange for a friend, neighbor or volunteer to serve as driver.

• Preserve your parent's dignity whenever possible. Try saying, "You've driven us so many times growing up. Now it's time for you to sit back and enjoy the scenery, while someone chauffeurs you. Besides, I like driving and don't get the chance much." That's much more effective than saying, "We don't want you to drive, because you're not as good a driver as you used to be."

Look for a long-term transportation solution. Contact your local social services office to find paid and volunteer transportation services in your area..