Dear Dr. Weil, I just found this blog, so I haven't had a chance to read a lot of it. I hope my comments are appropriate to the topic and to your mission.
I admire your integrative approach for developing healthy lifestyles, but I feel like this entry falls short of that ideology. This seemingly neutral and objective information about contraception, implies that contraception is part of a healthy, holistic lifestyle. I don't believe it is.
By separating the procreative aspects of the sexual union from the unitive aspects, it creates a barrier between couples and the true spiritual intimacy that God intends for them. It drastically impairs their ability to communicate on the deeper levels needed for healthy, holistic lifestyles. That impairment then carries over into relationships outside the marriage, leading to our world being impaired when it comes to creating a better one.
By denying a woman's fertility cycle, and closing off their hearts to children, a couple is putting their sexual desires ahead of the good of their family and the rest of society. In the case of premarital sex, they are putting their sexual desires ahead of everything. Lifelong chastity, in mind, body and spirit, in and out of marriage, is the only successful holistic lifestyle I know of. Even women with erratic menstrual cycles can succeed with it. Contraception is not needed. Better education is.
After all, if we truly believe our children have the willpower to say No to Drugs, we should believe they can also say No to Sex, and No to Self-Centered Gratification, and no to remaining ignorant about holistic chastity. And we should be role models for them, by learning and practicing it ourselves.
To recap, I don't believe contracepting is part of a healthy lifestyle, short or long term, individually or collectively. I believe lifelong chastity, in mind, body, and spirit, is the best approach. I would love to see more holistic information provided about it.
As a footnote - Natural Family Planning is not intended for contracepting or for denying the gift of children. It is meant for responsible parenthood with an openness to love, life, family and marriage. Peace, Kathleen
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