1. Posted by nyc_big_red on Mon, Apr 23, 2007, 8:14 am PDT

I think that effort should be given on both ends of the relationship and you cant give or go 50/50 you have to each go 100% so thats how i was able to keep strong relationships. This will and can help

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2. Posted by lilgrump on Mon, Apr 23, 2007, 9:26 am PDT

never forget your love one. He or she can not always wait for you, wondering what are you doing and who you are with. take a few mintues to show how much they care to you and reassure them their is no one or nothing to worry about.

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3. Posted by chadmadhops on Mon, Apr 23, 2007, 10:02 am PDT

thank God for advice my wife is leaving me but it's my fault.

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4. Posted by chadmadhops on Mon, Apr 23, 2007, 10:02 am PDT

thank God for advice my wife is leaving me but it's my fault.

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5. Posted by chadmadhops on Mon, Apr 23, 2007, 10:02 am PDT

thank God for advice my wife is leaving me but it's my fault.

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6. Posted by boozeryagets on Mon, Apr 23, 2007, 10:38 am PDT

If my wife& I have a problem she always walks out on me.she NEVERS talks or faces the problem.she seems to be cowerley.i lovr her so much will do anything to bring her home!!!!

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7. Posted by boozeryagets on Mon, Apr 23, 2007, 10:41 am PDT

yesssss,thats what i am talking about!!thx

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8. Posted by Cheryl G on Mon, Apr 23, 2007, 10:55 am PDT

What do you do when the friend you dating thought you were doing everything right...and you were really going out with someone who was just full of excuses...and not the person you thought he/she really was? That person in turn just I think ended up turning all his hurt and anger out on you? I know it's time to move on. But, it's so hard!

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9. Posted by Holly H on Mon, Apr 23, 2007, 11:05 am PDT

I think you sometimes can do everything possible to save your relationship. But if the other person isnt putting there 100 percent in, it isnt going to work. And sometimes you have to let go. And realize that if you love that person, you have to let them grow on ther own. And if its meant to be, they will come back. Or this might be the time that you realize that you dont want them back.

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10. Posted by nenabonita on Mon, Apr 23, 2007, 11:48 am PDT

My live-in boyfriend and I are havin' differences and difficulties in our 6mo. relationship. We haven't had intimacy for 3 1/2 wkks. is one, two we don't communicate at all not even at bedtime, nor do we even caress one another now for the same amount of time. I am confused, I care for him even, though he is jealous, insecure, moody and has disrespected me physically and verbally, I don't know if I should vow down and try to work matters out or just let it be since he's already talked about moving out into his own apartment. What should I do is my question and why do I hurt so much because there's nothing goin' on between us...???? I have such bad luck and my expectations of a man when "he" has given promises and are broken become very disappointed that I refuse to try and just want to let them go and stay alone... How do I even give my love & caring if he in returns doesn't appreciate anythin' I do nor compliments me when I encourage him from his insecurity, stubburness, and help with talkin' him out of depression & moods. Actually, he only acted nice when he he's under the influence! Should I just let this man go for him to grow and focus on a better future with someone else or should I try to save this confusing relationship??? Help me please!

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11. Posted by amee0007 on Mon, Apr 23, 2007, 11:55 am PDT

Don't do everything to save your relationship if that action will hurt somebody or inconvenient to other's people job just don't do that action.Your partner won't be happy for that.

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12. Posted by amee0007 on Mon, Apr 23, 2007, 12:16 pm PDT

you are like a baby like my niece and nephew.

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13. Posted by amee0007 on Mon, Apr 23, 2007, 12:20 pm PDT

Only baby age need to hear somebody's appreciation and compliments. Are you baby age??:) :)

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14. Posted by amee0007 on Mon, Apr 23, 2007, 12:27 pm PDT

If people not impresss you they won't ask your advice. Some people don't know how to express their appreciation and compliments.

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15. Posted by Sandra J on Mon, Apr 23, 2007, 5:02 pm PDT

very nice advice.I use it all the time i wish more men would use it in dating.Im a single women in hope to have a long term relationship in the future men seem to be selfish sometimes.

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