1. Posted by bbp102007 on Thu, Apr 03, 2008, 1:48 pm PDT

I so agree with fantasy thing. I am recently divorced after 14 years. I have realized that I primarily got married because I thought it was time to get married and start a family-not really because I wanted to grow old with my ex. I think most women are caught up in planning the wedding and aren't even thinking about what marriage means.

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2. Posted by princess on Thu, Apr 03, 2008, 1:54 pm PDT

I've been a divorced Mom of 2 for 5 yrs. now. I agree so much with everything that you've said, especially the part about not staying in a miserable marriage. My oldest daughter, who remembers the abuse that I went through, tells me often that she is glad that I divorced her Dad.....I also believe that I've been an inspiration to my kids, I've proved that Women can be strong, depend on themselves and be happy!!!

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3. Posted by winnydababe on Mon, Apr 07, 2008, 7:31 am PDT

and to you chuckcc2007 hope you can read what you have written...you seem so miserable and pathetic....hey,whats your story pal?

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4. Posted by princess on Wed, Apr 23, 2008, 8:13 am PDT

chuckcc2007---Sounds like you're one of those miserable guys that bring misery into marriages, exactly what this article is about.

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