The IUD RUINED MY LIFE!!!
I'm going to tell you something you won't see anywhere on the web, and no doctor will tell you about...
I had an IUD for about a year and it's been a nightmare. I had cramping upon insertion which got WORSE over the months. My periods went from 5 to 14 HEAVY days...with 2 days a month so bad I could barely leave bed. Sex was so painful, I wouldn't even let my boyfriend think about it.
My GYN kept telling me it was all normal, and would get better. He told me to take motrin before sex after I told him it was like I was being STABBED on the inside. That should have been a red flag right there, but
I can't take hormones (depoprovera made me suicidal), and have a latex sensitivity. The IUD was pretty much my last choice, and I was determined to make it work out.
Well, after a year it got no better and I finally had it removed. The doctor actually looked smug over the whole thing, like I was just being a wimp and giving up.
That's not even the worst part... 2 years later sex is still very painful. Not as bad, but if I get hit in a certain spot I lose it. I curl into a fetal position and just bawl. It's the worst thing to ever happen to me, and it's affecting every part of my life...in and out of the bedroom. I can't be the giving wife I want to be, and just feel so insufficient. Now I know how impotent men must feel...I feel less than a woman now. I'm terrified to have sex, and feel so alone. The psychological scars run the deepest, not to mention the strain this causes on our relationship.
Now I'm ruined. My new GYN has done all sorts of tests and ultrasounds and cannot figure it out. She wants to take a needle full of saline and inject it into the nerves and kill them. I'm terrified, but it may be my only option.
We're not sure if it will affect my fertility yet, since we're still not ready to try...but it might.
Please consider all of this before you do it. I know of alot of women who have had no problems, and have never heard of a horror story like mine anywhere. I would never want another couple to go through this.
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