1. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Jan 08, 2007, 2:14 pm PST

I never did like the spy crap. Honestly, wasn't patient enough to do it. When I did look up a few #'s on his cell bill. I would think Im not doing this, too much trouble and it robs your peace. So I just let be and it did come out. Now, he was always reading all my email checking messages called me 100 times a day, had to do lunch with him everyday, we got along just fine IF I kept all friends and family out of my life. He was always trying to find me guilty of something. I guess this article is really true.

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2. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Jan 08, 2007, 2:56 pm PST

I think some people are more intuitive than others and it doesn't matter if they are male or female.Some people just have a keener sense of knowing. These are people who operate more from the right side of their brains. You don't have to spy to know if your partner is cheating on you. (If you are intuitive that is)

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3. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Jan 08, 2007, 4:17 pm PST

So true ,well said .Once I my old GF lived with me and my suspicions were so strong .I Stooped to a phone tap abd a motion activated spy cam . What the phone tape and the video did was hurt me more than her . while on a 4day business trip she had 4 different and Phone sex with agreat friend .Was she wrong ? Yes . Was I equally wrong ? Yes again ! I agree if it comes to having to spy then the end has already arrived .

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4. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Jan 08, 2007, 4:18 pm PST

I cheat! I just do.

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5. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Jan 08, 2007, 5:02 pm PST

a77wolf-that is horrible. She had sex with a friend of yours. Yes all cheating is wrong. But I really don't understand when someone cheats with their mates friend. That would really be hurtful. In my case, my husband was the guilty one and everytime he was guilty he would try and put it on me.

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6. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Jan 08, 2007, 5:04 pm PST

So why do you cheat blonde? Is it something you feel you cant control? Or just don't care about the relationship? Just curious!

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7. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Jan 08, 2007, 6:37 pm PST

Ok I have a question that isn't related to this blog. My dog who isn't a year yet humps everytoy stuff animal he owns ALL the time. His stuff has been sticking out for the last hour,ewwww, is that normal?

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8. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Jan 08, 2007, 7:54 pm PST

I was guilty of that, spying on my husband. I had this strong feeling before that he had a female text mate. Who wouldn't? I caught him texting in our terrace at 3 am. I read his text messages when I had the chance and I was right. Jealousy can sometimes really make a wife stoop so low. I even pretended to be somebody else and started to text him and "string" (right word?) him along and had sex with him in the text, and he did huh. (the nerve). But that's all water under the bridge now. I forgave him already for his past deeds but I don't forget, I realize that now, we can forgive but sometimes we don't forget, there's always this little doubt in my head (ugh!)...but there's no more more pain in my heart now (??)..I'm babbling.

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9. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Jan 08, 2007, 8:02 pm PST

But up to now, I wouldn't admit to him that it was me who was his textmate (lol) I'd rather die than admit it, though....and he even suggested that I do it also (cheating). Sometimes it hurts just a little to recall that. But on the other hand, maybe he said it only at the heat of the (confrontation). I'm sorry..it's just one of these days....feeling down...

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10. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Jan 08, 2007, 8:13 pm PST

#7-Mygrace, maybe, a bug or something might have bitten your dog's "stuff" and it's starting to get itchy down there. Or maybe he saw you doing something with your "toys" (lol!!) joke only,please don't get mad. I just couldn't resist saying that Lol!! By the way, If I remember right, you said your birthday is in January. When is it?

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11. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Jan 08, 2007, 8:20 pm PST

#4 - Yes please tell. I'm curious also how "cheaters" (sorry) think, why they do it and all.

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12. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Jan 08, 2007, 8:23 pm PST

#4 - Yes please tell. I'm curious also how "cheaters" (sorry) think, why they do it and all.

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13. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Jan 08, 2007, 8:24 pm PST

#4 - Yes please tell. I'm curious also how "cheaters" (sorry) think, why they do it and all.

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14. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Jan 08, 2007, 8:26 pm PST

break time....

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15. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Jan 08, 2007, 8:29 pm PST

ngeeh!!. I only pressed the button once. Sorry...

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