16. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Sun, Sep 28, 2008, 2:24 pm PDT

I am so glad I don't have to deal with the other men women here are dealing with. Been there done that. I now have a man who is ready to please me. Ladies, maybe you need to move on?

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17. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Sun, Sep 28, 2008, 8:47 pm PDT

the day I believe my soul to be in jeopardy over sex, I'll place a portrait of Ronald Reagan over my bed.

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18. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Sun, Sep 28, 2008, 11:14 pm PDT

Hi, I have a husband who has thousand of sex fantasy,and we have tried almost of his idea so far but sometimes I couldnt keep up with him specially with the new " toys " being invented now, n magazine porn? if I dont trow them in the bin theyll be laying around the house,is he addict?

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19. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Sun, Sep 28, 2008, 11:32 pm PDT

Unless it's minimal and mild and between couples porn is a problem no one wants to admit. It usually involves secrecy, obsession with masturbation and other sexual problems. If people have good sex lives they don't need porn. It usually goes along with cyber-cheating thru chat sites and heaps more

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20. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Sep 29, 2008, 5:29 am PDT

My husband has a sex addiction and has finally admitted it. It is a true illness just like any other addiction. It destroys relationships because the addict lives a secret life and other things suffer as well as the addict becomes more intense in there addicton. There is help out there!

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21. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Sep 29, 2008, 5:33 am PDT

Just one more thing, the addict can have a good sex life with there partner, it's an illness and there is usually an underlying problem usually from there childhood. The addict is constant seeking affection and the high of love and the chase. It has nothing to do with the relationship they are in.

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22. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Sep 29, 2008, 11:08 am PDT

this is all bull. it is another blame game on men for women to shirk some of their responsibility of them committing totally into a relationship. have they ever really asked a man if they are really really pleasing him or is this just another womens lib thing? respect goes both ways take a look

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23. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Sep 29, 2008, 11:14 am PDT

There is more. The tense job situation and the burden most men feel to earn the money with more pre4ssure and less "good" jobs and more jobs where everything is controlled mean more stress. The SO may not be supportive and a source of stress too. Not only that but So's "tend to let themselves go", in dress and demeanor. that fun charming person is no 180 degrees different. Gained weight,not fun, not supportive. : the cyber is not making demands and watching and talking fantasy is relaxing with no judgement. We have become "worker bees" with no outlet to decompress after the day(if one has the time). Most jobs are pressured and controlled with every minute planned out. Pressure upon pressure and when we get "home" the are chores and demands that rob decompression until sleep time.

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24. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Tue, Sep 30, 2008, 8:11 am PDT

CYbersex is the least of the demons out there.....the new phone dating services are very addictive! A person can meet and have sex with someone you don't even know their last name or sexual history! It is rampant! My EXBF of 16 years got hooked and exposed me to an STD not to mention HIV! Its appauling! Now I don't even want to have a physical relationship

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25. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Oct 01, 2008, 9:57 am PDT

If your partner has a SEX ADDICTION, then the solution is simple. Make yourself the object of all thier Sexual Energy. They will still be addicted, but they will be addicted to you... Simple, and kinda the point.

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26. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Oct 01, 2008, 3:52 pm PDT

For every problem there is a solution. Poster # 26 knows solutions !!! Gotta love people with common sense.

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27. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Oct 01, 2008, 5:32 pm PDT

My wife loves having cybersex with strangers. I thought old people were not supposed to like computers. Helen watches porn everyday on her computer then she climbs up on top of me needing her fix.

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28. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Oct 03, 2008, 12:41 pm PDT

my boyfriend is addicted to on-line porn and self masterbation and it is affecting our relationship tremendously.nothing I've tried helps get his attention please help before I have to leave him to find some penis

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29. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Oct 03, 2008, 10:23 pm PDT

It has practically destroyed my life as every woman I have ever been in a relationship with was a female sex addict.

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30. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Oct 06, 2008, 7:21 am PDT

To vahaa - many people feel pressures and stress, but don't all CHOOSE to deal with it by resorting to porn. There are devoted, loyal, faithful hardworkers out there who don't blame their choices on other things. You're making excuses for those who don't care to control their sick obsessions.

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