By Dr. Laura Berman Provided by: The Berman Center

The Art of Intimacy

The Secrets Your Partner is Keeping From You By Dr. Laura Berman - Posted Wed, Jul 09, 2008, 12:59 pm PDT

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  • 16. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Jul 10, 2008, 11:49 pm PDT

    I have a question for "Dr Laura". Did you get your tuition fees refunded? If not, you should! Surely someone with some real life knowledge could be found to write for forums like these.

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  • 17. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Jul 11, 2008, 2:01 am PDT

    Married women shouldn't have night outs that involve drinking and dancing (as might be suspected by the attire). Married men shouldn't either.

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  • 18. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Jul 11, 2008, 5:59 am PDT

    I on second hand agree with fernandohasms. Married couple or unmarried couple who are happy with eachother and sound in there relationship should not require having to go out without eachother. The only way to a good relationship is if your going out then take your partner with you. And men do have a complex with there wieght. But some chose to stay the way they are and if they want to fix it they can if not so what. And on the part of babies. yeah not all women want kids but others do.

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  • 19. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jul 16, 2008, 1:19 am PDT

    I have a feeling that theres a possibility when your other goes out and could get into some trouble and they could come home all over you because they miss you or they could be just trying to erase what happened earlier out of their memory by being all over you. My ex would go out when she got mad at me. Or always ask what my schedule was, but never wanted to reveal too much about her business. Would always want her questions answered but not feel inclined to answer the same questions

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  • 20. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jul 16, 2008, 1:27 am PDT

    I think there is something wrong with your lady's attire if what she wears out is constantly more provocative than what she wears for you personally. Or if your lady goes out to dance but won't dance with you.

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  • 21. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jul 16, 2008, 8:03 pm PDT

    # 13: Hey gilteeegirl! Nice to see you posting again. See ya around the blogs.

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  • 22. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Jul 17, 2008, 8:59 am PDT

    Hi GTG and ricecake!. I'm reading dave's new blog on living the moment on shine. All is well here. welcome back!

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  • 23. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Jul 17, 2008, 5:30 pm PDT

    #24.. Hi ricecakecoaster.. . Good to see you! Had a hard time finding the blogs cuz there's soooo much on Yahoo's front page. (I got lost in Yahooland!) LOL

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  • 24. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Jul 17, 2008, 5:32 pm PDT

    #25... Hey Maria, how you doing? I moved a little bit south.. Not a smart thing to do in the summer!! LOL (should have done it in the winter when the snow was flying) TTYL

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  • 25. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Jul 17, 2008, 5:35 pm PDT

    ricecake.. I just saw your first comment. (didn't see that before) I don't like killing spiders either... I'll gladly let a man do that! or anyone else who's willing.

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  • 26. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Jul 17, 2008, 7:58 pm PDT

    #25: Hi maria! Glad to hear you're doing well. I'll have to check out Dave's new blog sometime. Haven't really checked out anything on shine yet. Maybe I'll see ya over there sometime. It's a nice surprise to see you're still blogging too.

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  • 27. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Jul 17, 2008, 8:58 pm PDT

    #26,28: Hey gilteeegirl. Happy to see you found your way back. Yahoo has become a bit convoluted with all that they've added on. Hopefully, it improves over time. As much as I don't like spiders, I think centipedes are even worse. There's twice as much of them to squish!! Thankfully, there are volunteers who will chase them!!!

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  • 28. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Jul 18, 2008, 7:54 am PDT

    Ricecake.. I don't get it.. Is "Shine" where the blogs are listed??? The one way I could get here was from the front page... then I went to "See All Yahoo Featured Sites" (or something like that) and then had to find "Health"... then "Ask the Experts"... just to get here. Is there a way to get to the Expert blogs more quickly?

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  • 29. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Jul 18, 2008, 8:04 am PDT

    Ok.. on topic here... Secrets I don't tell my partner... I don't tell my Sweetie that I dye my hair!!! LOL I didn't do this intentionally, but a few weeks ago he said "you are the most beautiful blonde I've ever known! I hate it when women dye their hair, it looks cheap!" LOLOL I go to the stylist and have it highlighted every 2 months. Where he's never seen me dying it, I guess he just assumes I am a natural blonde!! I decided to leave it at that... but some day I will tell him the truth.. LOL

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  • 30. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Jul 18, 2008, 8:10 am PDT

    #32-Hey GTG,if ur man thinks ur a natural,then 1 of 2 things-u dye down there too-or u keep it hairless-lol just wanted to say hi and welcum back

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