By Dr. Laura Berman Provided by: The Berman Center

The Art of Intimacy

3 Red Flags That You're Headed for a Breakup By Dr. Laura Berman - Posted Thu, Jun 26, 2008, 3:55 pm PDT

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  • 1. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Jun 27, 2008, 4:08 pm PDT

    If only I read this before getting to a point where things are so hard to heal, you can only try and learn from mistakes

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  • 2. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Sat, Jun 28, 2008, 6:04 am PDT

    Excellent article. It should be required reading for everyone in newly developed relationships while they are still 'honeymooning'.

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  • 3. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Sun, Jun 29, 2008, 12:09 pm PDT

    All three ascribe comments are ok, relationships are like! %@$?+= and you take things for granted,.... next times.

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  • 4. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Jun 30, 2008, 9:34 pm PDT

    I have read all of the point and you are so right, i think everyone sould try this because if it dose not work then you can say you have tryed, relationship are not be taking for granted because ones you don't have it anymore you strat to think what did i do worry, listed and talk it will help.

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  • 5. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Tue, Jul 01, 2008, 1:00 am PDT

    if that was the case of breaking up.... We would all be alone !! Show the love you get the love back, there is no cure for breaking up. The first thing that tells you something is wrong is when wandering eyes set in... after that it's all downhill

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  • 6. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jul 02, 2008, 6:46 pm PDT

    If you partner quits going down on you, you might be on your way to getting dumped !!! This holds true whether your male of female. LOL !!!

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  • 7. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jul 02, 2008, 11:28 pm PDT

    Very simplistic. I believe there are more signs than this. Or at least the first one, "Tuning Out" could be greatly expanded upon and expounded. Plus the solution of pouring cold water on flames makes the person seem simpering and weak. I think its ok to let people know how you feel without being manipulative of passive aggressive.

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  • 8. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jul 02, 2008, 11:34 pm PDT

    THIS ARTICLE NEEDED MORE DEPTH AND WAS WAY TOO SIMPLISTIC!

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  • 9. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jul 02, 2008, 11:36 pm PDT

    Thats why I am single... I don't want to deal with this garbage.... I make my own rules, and I want to live as I please and not let someone dictate where I should go, what I should do, what do I eat, watch on tv, or how I sleep. Forget it. I will get a dog. At least if he bites me, he will come back and show affection. Sorry women can't do that...

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  • 10. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jul 02, 2008, 11:37 pm PDT

    This article is an EPIC FAIL.

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  • 11. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jul 02, 2008, 11:39 pm PDT

    This is so me and my boyfriend 100% .

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  • 12. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jul 02, 2008, 11:41 pm PDT

    I need a nuetral butten to press on this one.... Don't agree with everything but there are some very good points here.

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  • 13. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jul 02, 2008, 11:41 pm PDT

    Relationships are not that difficult! For those of you that think they are, you take yourself extremely too seriously! Do some accurate accounting of when you have been unfair with your significant other and things will most often balance out. The search for the perfect mate is honorable but futile. Chill out and love the one you're with!

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  • 14. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jul 02, 2008, 11:43 pm PDT

    i don't know if this article is a sign that she's going to leave me i hope not :( I really love her I've tried,show and gave her everything that i have i hope she won't leave me. I am scared i dont' know what to do ..

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  • 15. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jul 02, 2008, 11:43 pm PDT

    its helpfull mentally and practically

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