451. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Jul 10, 2008, 12:19 am PDT

thanks for the info

Report Abuse

452. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Jul 10, 2008, 12:24 am PDT

test

Report Abuse

453. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jul 30, 2008, 3:36 am PDT

What about an affair discovered and gone thru the steps of repair only to find out your partner cheated because you caught herpes from your partner who swore she would never cheat again, humm

Report Abuse

454. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Tue, Dec 30, 2008, 2:06 pm PST

Even though my ex said lets save the marriage and go to counseling, after I discovered she was cheating, she never went to counseling. she moved out and I had the kids with me. I then felt she only wanted to move out to have more privacy for the affair and once I finally realized that I would never be able to trust this person again,(lies about and surrounding the affair) I went through with the divorce. Now 4 years later, I'm glad I'm away from her, a person that changed a lot (for the worse IMO) and I have another partner in my life who is fantastic.

Report Abuse

455. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Sat, Jan 03, 2009, 8:32 am PST

How would I get over an affair? Easy, when that Greyhound passes me with that no good goldigger on board as she passes by, I;d say I'm over it!!!!!!!!

Report Abuse

456. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Sun, Mar 01, 2009, 7:25 am PST

It has taken me just over 1 year to finally gain the trust back in my man, due to his cheating and not using protection at the time and now has a child. There is no pain in my heart that is greater than this, however, knowing the circumstances and his "old behavior", I was able to forgive. It does take a lot of work on both of our parts and I had to vent my major anger and have many times, tried to end the relationship because the thoughts of him with someone else consumed my every night and day. we were able to work through our problems and are happy today.

Report Abuse

457. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Mar 19, 2009, 10:18 am PDT

well yes there is times that i sit back and put the blame on me for his affair but then i also remeber that i stayed clean why did nt he its really hard to not think about it but if u stay in the marriage then there is still something there right dont no if he will cheat again but its always in the back of my mind and little things will bring back bad memories of what he did

Report Abuse

458. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Sun, Jun 14, 2009, 9:41 pm PDT

dskains poster..... wow it's been 4yrs and you still find the need to post on a site regarding divorce. Doesn't sound like you're over it yet. May want to try counseling for yourself. Also a new partner always seems "fantastic" when you're not over one that left you. Good luck!

Report Abuse

459. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Jun 15, 2009, 8:22 am PDT

lrubin73 agreed. dskains doesn't look like he's over his ex. Too bad, most people don't take 4 years. When someone whines for this long they are miserable.

Report Abuse