1. Posted by onelatinangel209 on Fri, Dec 14, 2007, 12:49 am PST

I thought this was an excellant entrance into 2008, if more couples did this the rate in divorces would be alot less...

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2. Posted by frepak2006 on Fri, Dec 14, 2007, 6:27 am PST

very interesting educative article. i wish every cuople and individuals will read and resolve their relationship not only 2008 but theoughout their lifes.thank you.

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3. Posted by newport3783 on Fri, Dec 14, 2007, 7:03 am PST

it only works if both can committ,...in other for me i think it's time i let go, for some relationships the other is to greedy and selfish to even try....

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4. Posted by chrissy_snow84 on Fri, Dec 14, 2007, 7:22 am PST

i think these are some good ideas for 2008. another good one would be no "emotional affairs"!

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5. Posted by unrequitted_love_9013 on Fri, Dec 14, 2007, 7:35 am PST

Um, I don't know about this article.Yeah, it's true-you SHOULD MAKE time for your marriage if you have one. However, this almost sounds like, "FORGET YOUR KIDS-they'll govern themselves!"

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6. Posted by tback 2 on Fri, Dec 14, 2007, 8:03 am PST

be horny at all times...

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7. Posted by hpgoode on Fri, Dec 14, 2007, 8:21 am PST

I think this was a great reminder. We all tend to forget the little things.

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8. Posted by nena g on Fri, Dec 14, 2007, 9:44 am PST

Raising kids after so many years(23yrs). Relationship was so focus on bills, growth-educational advantage,materials,promotions,etc...Now, the kids are grown, got every things needed. Then, I wake-up-I've realized I have been sleeping in a separae bedroom with my partner.This week, it's his vacation, he's been flirting every seconds-the problem is I don't know how to relate anymore intemately. I felt the distance even we're close.So , I'd asked-what happen to US? We talked openly all the passing years--good and bad.We became silent knowing we understood our actions...The question now...IS it possible to reconnect like it was...emotionally?we just grow apart emotionally. Mentally still connected politically, business, and others....The important part is somewhat buried,cold, and empty. How can a person measure success when at the end the one became the ZERO. Thanks for the article....Maybe time to date him all over again.

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9. Posted by nena g on Fri, Dec 14, 2007, 9:44 am PST

Raising kids after so many years(23yrs). Relationship was so focus on bills, growth-educational advantage,materials,promotions,etc...Now, the kids are grown, got every things needed. Then, I wake-up-I've realized I have been sleeping in a separae bedroom with my partner.This week, it's his vacation, he's been flirting every seconds-the problem is I don't know how to relate anymore intemately. I felt the distance even we're close.So , I'd asked-what happen to US? We talked openly all the passing years--good and bad.We became silent knowing we understood our actions...The question now...IS it possible to reconnect like it was...emotionally?we just grow apart emotionally. Mentally still connected politically, business, and others....The important part is somewhat buried,cold, and empty. How can a person measure success when at the end the one became the ZERO. Thanks for the article....Maybe time to date him all over again.

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10. Posted by boxmastertall on Fri, Dec 14, 2007, 12:00 pm PST

Balancing all aspects of home and relationships today is no easy task however definitely is easier provided the communication is present in the relationship to facilitate ongoing growth within the relationship.Have safe and happy holidays to all.

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11. Posted by hortontonia on Fri, Dec 14, 2007, 12:41 pm PST

stay single you will live longer, and stay stress free.

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12. Posted by Mary M on Fri, Dec 14, 2007, 1:25 pm PST

Hello there; I thought the article was very well written, with practical ideas to try in the realm of relationships. We all want to give and receive unconditional love, knowing that may just be a dream, or finding it within you/God. I am just getting into a romance at age 53 with a guy about the same age, and we each have been out of intimate relationships for 2 years. Instead of worrying about failure, I choose positive action and a friendly attitude. To me, being sincere means so much. I have long held the belief of not watching TV or reading in bed -- just use it for "bed stuff." Love to you all. from Clearwater Beach, FL.

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13. Posted by lilmstalented on Fri, Dec 14, 2007, 3:16 pm PST

Its great you can actually learn a lot from these things

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14. Posted by Donald F on Fri, Dec 14, 2007, 8:11 pm PST

good stuff, can you get the missus to agree

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15. Posted by whirlingwhitewind on Fri, Dec 14, 2007, 9:05 pm PST

11 - actually married people, and those in committed long-term relationships, live longer and experience less stress!

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