How do you give a gift to the most important person in your life? Holiday chocolate baskets and gift cards might be okay for every other person on your Christmas list, but your present to your significant other demands much more thought and preparation.
And what if you are in that awkward stage where you are just beginning to date someone - do you even get your new boyfriend/girlfriend a present? If so, how do you get a gift that comes off as simple and sweet, instead of stalker-like and presumptuous?
Here is a handy holiday list that will help you get a gift for that special someone in your life, whether you have been together a month or a lifetime.
For the New Relationship
- Crossword Puzzle to Your Heart - The best gift at this stage of the relationship is one that is small in price, but big on thoughtfulness. Pay attention to the little interests that your new love has. For instance, if she enjoys doing crossword puzzles on the bus, get a booklet of them that will last throughout the year.
If he loves to fish, get him a new tackle box or bait hooks. A small gift like one of these proves that you pay attention to your beau's interests - and it also shows that you aren't trying to buy their affection with an expensive, generic gift. - Two For the Show - Another great gift idea is a fun date activity. If there is a concert or sports game your love interest would like to attend, get a couple of tickets for you and him. (It doesn't have to be front row seats!) Give your date the tickets with a card that says the nachos and beer are on you. When your date realizes that you are willing to participate in his interests, even if it is something you are not necessarily interested in, you will win major brownie points.
For the Long-Term Couple
- Recreate the Forgotten Romance - Committed couples often fall into the habit of getting each other practical, non-romantic gifts like toaster ovens, dress socks, and shoe racks. Sure, they are useful, and you know your spouse needs them, but they hardly take her breath away!
Instead, buy her a gift that is a little impractical. Whether it is two-dozen roses sitting by the tree on Christmas morning, jewelry, or a pair of the sky-high, heeled boots she eyes at the mall every weekend, indulge her romantic and reckless side. - Less Consumerism - You might have reached the stage in your relationship where both you and your partner have tired of the consumerism that accompanies the holidays. After all, you reason, neither of you want nor need anything, so why waste hundreds of dollars at the mall on junk?
In a case such as this, why not agree upon a charity where both you and your partner can donate the cash you would ordinarily spend on each other? Buying a doll or train set for a needy child who would otherwise receive nothing on Christmas can cure holiday blues for both the giver and the receiver. Sponsor a toy at Toys for Tots. - Couple's Time - Give your partner a coupon for a massage after the holidays, when she will want to de-stress and relax. Alternately, you could book a cooking service to come to your house and prepare a gourmet meal. They will take care of the cooking and the cleaning, so you and your partner can simply relax and enjoy each other's company.
If cash is tight this year, send your kids off to their grandparents for the night, rent an old, romantic movie, and order in your partner's favorite Chinese food. Any gift that allows you to spend time and have fun together is perfect.
Whatever gift you choose to get your significant other this year, be sure to not let the holidays fly by before you take time to appreciate the loved ones around you. The perfect gifts are always the gifts of gratitude and appreciation. This holiday season don't forget to thank your significant other for their support, love, and friendship. They will remember your kind words all year long.
Now you tell me, readers - what are some of your great gift ideas?
