16. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Sep 10, 2007, 7:26 pm PDT

Blah, blah, blah....as long as he never says no to me, everything is perfect.LOL!!

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17. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Sep 10, 2007, 8:56 pm PDT

I am right there with you Coco,never accept NO! Unless he is very sick! LOL!

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18. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Sep 10, 2007, 8:59 pm PDT

Blondonbottom ,you too are right, the best welcome ever . A good point is to never say Never and rarely ever say NO ! LOL!

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19. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Sep 10, 2007, 9:06 pm PDT

I got an E-Mail from an unknown sender,Mistakenly I opened it and a Nasty Virus has killed my Computer .I got a laptop for the moment but all my files have been been destroyed . Since my Home computer is linked to my work My bosses are investigating the origin of the ABLOGFRIEND who is the sender if anyone here gets something from this or a similar sender you do not recognize DO NOT OPEN IT ,DELETE IT AND DUMP YOUR TRASH FILE. Ciao',Jan

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20. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Sep 10, 2007, 10:16 pm PDT

He tells me he loves me we do things together I try to pretend things are prefect for my children and my sanity am I crazy for that, if I just wait will he change back into the man I married when I was 18yrs old or will I have to take care of 4 people for the rest of my life I'm not use to that I'm the baby of my family I'm use to being spoiled. not any more

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21. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Sep 10, 2007, 10:18 pm PDT

#20,Crazyace24lace,,My friends often wonder why I have never been married?? When they next ask I will refer them to your Post. Explanation enough.I hate to see you suffer,but at the same time I do not know what to say or what advice to give you. Perhaps you could get help through your local church as it does sound as if Mr.Lazy definately needs some spunk in his life. I wish you the very best and hope it works out to your very best . Good luck because yo really need it ! Ciao',Jan

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22. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Sep 10, 2007, 10:21 pm PDT

Some of you married ladies please come to the aid of Crazyace24lace,She needs some definate help NOW! Jan

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23. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Sep 10, 2007, 10:23 pm PDT

Hi spankmei, (that still doesn't sound right,LOL) your blog name always gets me laughing...thanks for the e-mail alert...take care, coco

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24. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Sep 10, 2007, 10:35 pm PDT

Hey Coco can you please help this girl? Give her some good advice or something ?? I hope everything in your life is great.Your Blog name is quite catchy as well ,Either a hard working girl or a golddigger ! LOL! I am sure you are a hard worker !Miss talking to you ! Ciao',Jan

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25. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Sep 10, 2007, 10:40 pm PDT

p.s. Jan, I sent you an e-mail.. Nice talking with you, it's morning time in Chi-Caaaa-Go, time for bed friend. Talk to you again soon ok? TTFN coco

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26. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Sep 10, 2007, 10:50 pm PDT

Well I got 2 beautiful daughters and a handsome son. Who could ask for more. And as long as I have breath in my body I will work and support my family seeing babies born every day right before my eyes is enough to give me hope for the future when I think about it I really don't mind sometimes because I get to do what I love to do everyday and come home to a lazy man like a big live teddy bear in the same spot when I come home every day or night ironic if you think about it I have the perfect life and 3 flawless children to top it off. MY 5yr old wants to be a movie star and she loves Will Smith, my 3yr old is quiet and laid back she loves to write and draw to the best of her 3yr old ability and my son just turned 2 last month he is so clingy as long as I am there he wants to follow me he tries to clean like me he likes to help and he loves to play the baby role to I love it a mommas boy, they make it worth while. At first I was feeling bad b/c all the perfect husbands but everyone's relationship is diff. and mine is unique we will have a happily ever after.

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27. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Sep 10, 2007, 11:02 pm PDT

Coco,Got the mail,you might just be right . Its 11:00pm mere and my eyes are getting heavy too. Goodnight all ! Ciao',Jan

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28. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Sep 10, 2007, 11:04 pm PDT

Here instead of mere I must be tired! Jan

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29. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Tue, Sep 11, 2007, 12:28 am PDT

crazyace, it sounds like maybe your husband is depressed, sometimes when your depressed you dont want to do anything, where we think your just being lazy. sounds like your depressed also. sorry to hear that. who takes care of the kids when you work? can he be Mr Mom and do your part? I mean, can you afford to go to work and him stay at home and take care of the kids? I know sometimes that works, sometimes thats not possible... a lot of times we mamas do all the taking care of the kids and house work is because thats how we are "trained", by our our own mamas. a lot of times when the men try to help out it's they dont do it YOUR way, it doent get done right, and it's just easier to do it yourself. let them do it and bite your tounge, at least it's getting done. sometimes the nagging and name calling just makes the person NOT want to do their part, are you doing this? YOU have to work at saying Honey, can you please do this or that for me, so I can do this or that, and let them know you appriate the little things, even if they are really little, you can catch more flies with honey than vinegar ya know.and sometimes that appriation makes them want to help a little more. I know, I was the one who did everything in the beginning, by the end of haveing 3 kids I was so tired, and my ex didnt lift a finger. we wont go into HIM and his problems..... smile

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30. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Tue, Sep 11, 2007, 12:32 am PDT

oh, and by the way, I have done all of this Dr Laura says with my (ex) boyfriend, he still didnt appriate any of it til we broke up. I saw him tonight and he says he's so sorry for not appriating everything I've done for him he just has other issues he dosent want to deal with. too bad, cuz I still love him. the jerk. smile as I always say, with a teardrop falling down my cheek

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