1741. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jul 08, 2009, 6:37 am PDT

I AGREE WITH ONLY THE FAMILY CIRCUS COMMENT. I CHOSE NOT TO GET MARRIED OR HAVE KIDS. I COULD NEVER DEAL WITH THAT CHAOS. KIDS ARE NOTHING BUT AN ANNOYANCE AND I WOULD BE THE FIRST ONE OUT THE DOOR BEFORE HIM! LOL

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1742. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Jul 17, 2009, 3:52 pm PDT

SImply put - in my opinion - a man who cheats is not a man of God. If you can't discuss your needs with your spouse you should not have gotten married. That's why it is important to talk about everything and anything when you are dating. Cheating will make me leave your behind. I am not subjecting myself to disease and shame and now lately, DEATH over another human being. If that's what you want - go get it. But, I'm out!

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1743. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Aug 26, 2009, 6:08 pm PDT

Watch out for these signs.... 1) Mr too friendly...usually they are attention seekers. They have a roving eye and will most likely get taken in with the next flirty woman that comes along. 2) They are insecure. 3) Watch out of sudden success...If they come into $$$ or start making a lot more money they start thinking that they need something better to go with their new status...UGHHHHH.. So what do they do...they cheat... 4) salesman types....

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1744. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Tue, Sep 01, 2009, 5:48 pm PDT

A man feels last in the pecking order, so he runs over to the nearest unoccupied woman and asks for sexual favors ...kids are not to blame...so who do we lay this on, the family dog?? Or he's successful, and suddenly he's got to become king of the local bawdy house?? A little note, a compliment, good rapport with of all people...the waitress, whom few folks barely notice...and he's off on a fling...who IS this jackass? You know, when counting affairs, infidelities, divorces, etc. the same people get counted more than once, because they keep repeating the same ridiculous behaviors whle expecting different results. (That is also one definition of insanity, by the way.) If one third of the population were actually that demented, there would not be enough people left to mind the store. And as for cyber-sex...that's the most naive demonstation of stupidity going. There are all kinds of folks who will come to your home and read everything that's ever been on your computer for the price of a babysitter. Not only that, but the police (federal and local) constantlly monitor that type of contact "just in case" it's connected to criminal activity. Just use one of their key words and you're "on stage." Public domain. I've known some cheaters, but they were always people who sadly lacked integrity, personal standards, and the common sense to know that everyone for miles around knows exactly what is going on. They fool no one, except perhaps the spouse and that's temporary. Most men are too busy and too worn out, too respectful of themselves and too considerate of their families to even consider diving into the nearest gutter. If they're over the age of 21, they usually know that some stench is nearly impossible to wash off. But to be clear, cheating does ruin lives...most notably the cheater's.

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1745. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Sep 28, 2009, 9:12 pm PDT

Cheating is a awful thing to do, and especially to have it done to you, It destroys the mind body and soul. It takes away from us the very things that we hold so dear. Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness. And nobody is the winner, we all lose.Wheather it be by some disease with a short name, but a long time to die, or a sentence by a higher power. 5 minutes of pleasure; life time of If I had only........

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1746. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Oct 09, 2009, 8:47 am PDT

People cheat for a variety of different reasons. Some cheat because they can, some because their current partner does not fulfill their needs (either physical, or emotional). There are times that all the talking in the world does not help. I know, I am there now. It comes to point where you sacrifice your needs to keep the relationship going or you leave. Leaving it's not always simple. Once children, and properties are involved, it gets really complicated...

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1747. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Oct 29, 2009, 2:23 pm PDT

Aaah...the womanizer. It is doubtful that a chronic cheat, or is it sex addict these days, is going to change. Just leave 'em if they continue. There are other men and women. By the way, women do this as much as men. I have no idea why well-educated people with older children ready to leave the house, income and property of their own, feel the need to stay in a relationship. The candle had died out. Seems like a divorce is a good idea in those cases, but I will state this again. Do not try to fix people. Do not waste your time trying to marry someone who is just going to keep on cheating, who hates marriage and can't handle monogamy. It can be a lifestyle thing. Some people are perfectly happy with the 'Bill Clinton' and 'Hugh Hefner' lifestyle. I suppose I don't blame 'em, though I could not possibly down that many cherry martinis and smoke that much pot with strippers on my lap. I am satisfied with crisp bacon and apple pandowdy at dinner. I am more simple that these people and honestly, have better taste in relationships. They don't want relationships. They want to get laid, to blow, to get the goods. That's it. That is not monogamous love.

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1748. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Oct 29, 2009, 2:29 pm PDT

Now I am listening to the Beatles' #1 Hits right now and wondering why Ringo Starr and Paul McCartney are considered important. If there was anything about the Beatles, it was John Lennon. And George Harrison. Mr. Nauseating Pop Star does nothing for me. (And while Heather may be unlikable, he cheated on her and possibly beat her. In a divorce without a prenuptial agreement, people are allowed to make claims for money. I never understood the big deal. He is worth literally hundreds of millions of pounds. Taking twenty million is going to affect him much.) Much worse is the business of middle-class and working-class women who haven't done anything with their lives filing for divorce for no reason and insisting on getting full custody of the kids, ample child support for themselves and the house. Some of these men can barely afford to pay alimony and don't have a second or third property to spare but they have to pay for an adult's conveniences. Marriage without the husband, but he gets to pay for it. It is high time there were penalties for divorce without cause and support for the benefits of marriage.

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1749. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Tue, Nov 24, 2009, 2:28 pm PST

Men cheat because of two things. Opportunity and Intention. Even if he has the opportunity but he has no intention he will not cheat. Also even if he has the intention but he lacks the opportunity, he cannot cheat. Not surprisingly, men with power and resources has all the oppotunity hence the other half of the equation is present and it is now his character that determine whether he will cheat or not.

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