1. Posted by lreeba on Wed, Mar 19, 2008, 11:02 am PDT

YES! I agree.. but cheating when your married is pretty bad.. its kind of like the attention a woman gets when she goes on sweetimplants.com

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2. Posted by fondukake on Wed, Mar 19, 2008, 11:04 am PDT

I almost feel bad for people with status.. they can't get away with things.. like normal people.. i couldn't imagine being thrown in the spotlight for something I did wrong.. i feel bad when my wife catches me on fleshfuel.com ! Jeez do i here it..

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3. Posted by candyrainlala on Wed, Mar 19, 2008, 1:16 pm PDT

There s NO excuse. If you are that unhappy and all your methods haven't worked then leave but if you feel that you haven't done all you can do then work at it until you have done all you can. People with "money", "status" or whatever use these as excuses. No one can make you do what you don't want to do unless it is "rape". If going on those "websites" excites you then that is fine I do not think being on those sites are cheating unless you are engaging in inappropriate conversations and trying to hook up but ever relationship is different and they all have there own boundaries. Cheating whether you are married or not hurts but you do have more to loose if you are married (in some cases maybe not).

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4. Posted by mdc18@verizon.net on Wed, Mar 19, 2008, 3:16 pm PDT

MEN ARE NEVER HAPPY WHEN THEY GOT IT ALL, AND NEVER HAPPY IF THEY DON'T. WHEN MEN DON'T HAVE IT ALL THEY STRIVE TO GET WHAT THEY CAN, AND WHEN THEY HAVE IT ALL, THEY BORE EASILY AND STRIVE FOR THE NEXT. IN THE MEANTIME LEAVING THEIR WIFE OUT OF EVERYTHING THAT THEY STRIVE FOR AND THAT MAKES THEM HAPPY. AND WHEN THEY GET HOME ITS WHATS FOR DINNER, AND IF THERE IS ANY SEX TONIGHT. IF THERE IS NO SEX ITS THE COMPUTER, TV, ETC. HE DOESNT WANT TO TALK TO THE WIFE AND HE IS THE LAST PERSON TO READ ARTICLES LIKE THIS!

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5. Posted by Princess on Thu, Mar 20, 2008, 6:51 am PDT

I guess, the reason I've been a single, independent Woman for so long, is because of how easily Men are tempted by females. I would LOVE to be in a committed, loving relationship with a guy that I could actually trust, but they are so hard to find, and actually, just when you think you've met "Mr. Perfect" he turns out to be a complete cheating jerk. I don't know if, it's because guys have such low self estem and that they have to have their ego's stroked by every female on the planet... or, what? Hell, I'll never figure it out!!!!

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6. Posted by Sheri Jones on Thu, Mar 20, 2008, 10:51 am PDT

I don't know why anyone (male or female) cheats. It is kinder to walk away than to make someone believe something that isn't true. I agree with Princess, I would like to have a relationship with a man I could trust but I haven't been able to find one. I would rather spend my time cleaning bathrooms (and I detest cleaning bathrooms) than with a man I can't trust. For me and many women I know, we have concentrated on our many friendships and familial obligations to fill our time.

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7. Posted by carmenw1958 on Thu, Mar 20, 2008, 8:35 pm PDT

Where is 'Honor'??? If you honor yourself and those you love, you would not allow yourself to participate in things like cheating on your loved one. Maybe our society would be different if we put more value on personal honor and cared more about others. I was never fortunate enough to attract an honorable mate. Are there any left?

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8. Posted by Levi H on Thu, Mar 20, 2008, 10:05 pm PDT

One last thing to add: Women, do you think it would be fair for one woman to represent you all? To represent and portray everything that you are to the opposite sex, your image, your personality, everything? Now you think about that and does it really seem fair that this man should represent all men. Most of all of these claims are unfounded at best and it is my personal belief that anyone who could possibly consider taking any of this advance seriously has an extremely closed minded view of the world as it is.

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9. Posted by yuli102683 on Fri, Mar 21, 2008, 7:47 am PDT

I THINK IT IS A VERY HELPFULL. MAN ARE JUST SIMPLY STUPID. THERE IS NO BETTER WORD FOR THEM.

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10. Posted by candyrainlala on Fri, Mar 21, 2008, 12:07 pm PDT

I don't think he is trying to represent all men i believe he bases his studies on what the majority of the men that he has interviewed has responded to and it is just a shame that it appears the most of them are butt holes--i definitely dont think that all men are like the men in his studies, everyone is different there are a lot of decent-good men out there (just not in my city and state). We women have to take responsibility also and look at the type of men that we attract or are attracted to and all women arent good either. Hlaf of the reason relationships fail is because of a cheating tempted man (or womwn) and the other half is because some people dont care whether you are with someone or not they want what they want whether it is a one nite stand or them trying to take him/her for themselves and they will do whatever is necessary to get what they want by any means necessary. Sad but true. so it is a two way street-if you have a good person in your life be good to them cause KARMA is a mutha!!!!!!!

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11. Posted by Julie B on Fri, Mar 21, 2008, 1:21 pm PDT

Women cheat too.. we just don't get caught.

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12. Posted by Michael R on Fri, Mar 21, 2008, 1:23 pm PDT

What if it was the other way around why do wives cheat with the office co worker?

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13. Posted by nnena_achilefu@sbcglobal.net on Fri, Mar 21, 2008, 1:24 pm PDT

Men cheat because they think they can get a way with it. Period.

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14. Posted by Patrick on Fri, Mar 21, 2008, 1:25 pm PDT

Don't listen to all of the crap... Men cheat because men lack sexual desire in their partner. There is more than likely something that he likes that you dont do (sexually) and he seeks it from someone who is 110% willing with no fuss. Also, If a man cheats for any other reason, it's because he jus don't feel the affection from that woman. Yes ladies, men have emotions too... So if we feel a lack of affection and attention from our partner, We will seek elswhere for it... I have been with my girl now for 6 mo. It may not seem like a long time but it is to me. I have not been in too many commited relationships until now, and those that I was in I cheated. However, I was and still am comfronted with the same desires as I did in the past but ah ha! Guess what??? I have not cheated yet? Why? because she fufills all of my sexual and emotional desires, so I have no need to. Point being. If your man cheats on you ladies, there is more than likely something that your not doing.... Maybe you should start looking at yourself in the mirror....

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15. Posted by Judith H. Litherland on Fri, Mar 21, 2008, 1:26 pm PDT

How about "live with integrity" and don't talk down about your spouse (ever) to others. We've had our difficult moments but we are near our 47th anniv. We must have done something right, because we still enjoy being with each other.

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