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Your Man's Infidelity Triggers By David Zinczenko - Posted Wed, Mar 19, 2008, 10:54 am PDT

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  • 1. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Mar 19, 2008, 11:02 am PDT

    YES! I agree.. but cheating when your married is pretty bad.. its kind of like the attention a woman gets when she goes on sweetimplants.com

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  • 2. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Mar 19, 2008, 11:04 am PDT

    I almost feel bad for people with status.. they can't get away with things.. like normal people.. i couldn't imagine being thrown in the spotlight for something I did wrong.. i feel bad when my wife catches me on fleshfuel.com ! Jeez do i here it..

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  • 3. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Mar 19, 2008, 1:16 pm PDT

    There s NO excuse. If you are that unhappy and all your methods haven't worked then leave but if you feel that you haven't done all you can do then work at it until you have done all you can. People with "money", "status" or whatever use these as excuses. No one can make you do what you don't want to do unless it is "rape". If going on those "websites" excites you then that is fine I do not think being on those sites are cheating unless you are engaging in inappropriate conversations and trying to hook up but ever relationship is different and they all have there own boundaries. Cheating whether you are married or not hurts but you do have more to loose if you are married (in some cases maybe not).

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  • 4. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Mar 19, 2008, 3:16 pm PDT

    MEN ARE NEVER HAPPY WHEN THEY GOT IT ALL, AND NEVER HAPPY IF THEY DON'T. WHEN MEN DON'T HAVE IT ALL THEY STRIVE TO GET WHAT THEY CAN, AND WHEN THEY HAVE IT ALL, THEY BORE EASILY AND STRIVE FOR THE NEXT. IN THE MEANTIME LEAVING THEIR WIFE OUT OF EVERYTHING THAT THEY STRIVE FOR AND THAT MAKES THEM HAPPY. AND WHEN THEY GET HOME ITS WHATS FOR DINNER, AND IF THERE IS ANY SEX TONIGHT. IF THERE IS NO SEX ITS THE COMPUTER, TV, ETC. HE DOESNT WANT TO TALK TO THE WIFE AND HE IS THE LAST PERSON TO READ ARTICLES LIKE THIS!

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  • 5. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Mar 20, 2008, 10:51 am PDT

    I don't know why anyone (male or female) cheats. It is kinder to walk away than to make someone believe something that isn't true. I agree with Princess, I would like to have a relationship with a man I could trust but I haven't been able to find one. I would rather spend my time cleaning bathrooms (and I detest cleaning bathrooms) than with a man I can't trust. For me and many women I know, we have concentrated on our many friendships and familial obligations to fill our time.

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  • 6. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Mar 20, 2008, 8:35 pm PDT

    Where is 'Honor'??? If you honor yourself and those you love, you would not allow yourself to participate in things like cheating on your loved one. Maybe our society would be different if we put more value on personal honor and cared more about others. I was never fortunate enough to attract an honorable mate. Are there any left?

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  • 7. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Mar 20, 2008, 10:05 pm PDT

    One last thing to add: Women, do you think it would be fair for one woman to represent you all? To represent and portray everything that you are to the opposite sex, your image, your personality, everything? Now you think about that and does it really seem fair that this man should represent all men. Most of all of these claims are unfounded at best and it is my personal belief that anyone who could possibly consider taking any of this advance seriously has an extremely closed minded view of the world as it is.

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  • 8. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Mar 21, 2008, 7:47 am PDT

    I THINK IT IS A VERY HELPFULL. MAN ARE JUST SIMPLY STUPID. THERE IS NO BETTER WORD FOR THEM.

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  • 9. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Mar 21, 2008, 1:21 pm PDT

    Women cheat too.. we just don't get caught.

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  • 10. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Mar 21, 2008, 1:23 pm PDT

    What if it was the other way around why do wives cheat with the office co worker?

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  • 11. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Mar 21, 2008, 1:24 pm PDT

    Men cheat because they think they can get a way with it. Period.

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  • 12. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Mar 21, 2008, 1:25 pm PDT

    Don't listen to all of the crap... Men cheat because men lack sexual desire in their partner. There is more than likely something that he likes that you dont do (sexually) and he seeks it from someone who is 110% willing with no fuss. Also, If a man cheats for any other reason, it's because he jus don't feel the affection from that woman. Yes ladies, men have emotions too... So if we feel a lack of affection and attention from our partner, We will seek elswhere for it... I have been with my girl now for 6 mo. It may not seem like a long time but it is to me. I have not been in too many commited relationships until now, and those that I was in I cheated. However, I was and still am comfronted with the same desires as I did in the past but ah ha! Guess what??? I have not cheated yet? Why? because she fufills all of my sexual and emotional desires, so I have no need to. Point being. If your man cheats on you ladies, there is more than likely something that your not doing.... Maybe you should start looking at yourself in the mirror....

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  • 13. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Mar 21, 2008, 1:26 pm PDT

    How about "live with integrity" and don't talk down about your spouse (ever) to others. We've had our difficult moments but we are near our 47th anniv. We must have done something right, because we still enjoy being with each other.

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  • 14. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Mar 21, 2008, 1:30 pm PDT

    being fat and ugly will make me cheat

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  • 15. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Mar 21, 2008, 1:33 pm PDT

    Well, here's one for you: cheat on your spouses? Your impetuous behavior leads to a self imposed imprisonment and you brought it on yourself. One iniquity, if not corrected, leads to another iniquity and you will pay for it. Yes, the family will pay for it also, but your family will be looked upon as innocent. You,will catch the brunt of disapproving human reaction! You will be the carrier of the possibility of HIV and the possibility of destroying your wife's purposeful life with the disease you carry in your mind and body. YNajera

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