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Your Man's Secret Fears By David Zinczenko - Posted Mon, Mar 10, 2008, 2:23 pm PDT

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  • 1096. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Oct 17, 2008, 1:08 pm PDT

    ok I have skimmed over several of this guys articles, IS HE FOR REAL?! I grew up with 4 siblings, 2 sisters and 2 brothers and most of my friends growing up were guys. So I've had several years on the inside scoop, and this guy IS FULL OF IT! Yes a couple of his "facts" ring true but most of it is bull, fluff, smoke up the ole cabbose. Most men are not as shallow as they'd like us to think they are and this guy well WTH!

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  • 1097. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Oct 20, 2008, 3:32 pm PDT

    wow......thanks very interesting!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  • 1098. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Oct 23, 2008, 2:32 pm PDT

    Yawn.

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  • 1099. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Tue, Nov 18, 2008, 8:25 am PST

    i don't care if my hair drops out. been broke before, so i don't fear that. too many cheeseburgers? never enough. called out in public? i got nothing to hide. i can't have kids - my swimmers just don't work well. don't care for kids anyway. fail to perform? not worried. see - you really have no clue on life, do you?

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  • 1100. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Dec 05, 2008, 12:39 am PST

    .no comment

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  • 1101. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Dec 05, 2008, 12:39 am PST

    .no comment

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  • 1102. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jan 28, 2009, 9:24 am PST

    What causes bleeding from the mouth while sleeping ? And blood in your sperm ?

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  • 1103. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Apr 30, 2009, 8:03 pm PDT

    You at mens health employ this guys lame articles ??

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  • 1104. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Jun 18, 2009, 1:32 pm PDT

    you need to go to the beginning to ask why people stray in the first place. first off things change in a marriage and people get lazy in their relationship. marriage is like a really good job with benifits but if you slack off or get lazy then things get out of wack,. for instance we get tired of the same thing night after night. we come home from work, fix dinner and start laundry. the mate comes home eats dinner takes a shower and sits to watch tv. or after the children come into our lives, we gain weight or we just want sex any more. we are too tired. thats when the men need to step up. now i know there are alot of men out there who take care of the house and the kids and do a damn good job at it too. but then the working wives take advantage of this and wants more. but its when we stop talking to eachother is when the problem starts. we need to communicate even if its what we do to irritate someone. but we also want to be praised and feel needed. and appreciated. its then when we feel abused and used that we turn to someone that will listen and that usually ends up in an affair. getting something that we are not getting at home, and thats passion. we all need to feel passion in our lives. that feeling we had in the beginning of our relationship or when we had our first love in our lives. the touching, petting, kissing, looks of longing into eachothers eyes. it takes two to tango and two to work at a marriage. other factors are drugs, alcohol, obeisity, in laws, yes in laws, butting in when they shouldnt. and the most important is personal hygeine, i have alot to say on that but im sure that this is enough for you to see where im going with this. i once talked to a couple that had been married for 60 years and his reason for a long marriage was give her all the love she can handle. and her reason was just say yes dear and feed them well. but then she said that make love as long as you can and as long as you can because that is what keeps you young inside. so take a long look at your relationship and see what you can do to improve it before it goes down the drain.

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  • 1105. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Jul 27, 2009, 5:10 pm PDT

    You might make an honorable mention of the fear that you won't be useful enough, skilled enough. Sort of like a third wheel.

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  • 1106. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Aug 19, 2009, 5:23 pm PDT

    Ohhh... these sound well.. but not that horrible things to focus on. As long as the confidence in any aspect is there, fears will be lessened... Worries and fears are part of things that men and women should go through. Let just be reminded that no fears stay in you if you have the guts to conquer it.

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  • 1107. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Oct 09, 2009, 2:12 pm PDT

    now THIS i thought was right on

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  • 1108. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Tue, Nov 03, 2009, 2:46 am PST

    I have found this article very true to myself. Thank al ot

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