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Your Man's Secret Fears By David Zinczenko - Posted Mon, Mar 10, 2008, 2:23 pm PDT

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  • 1. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Tue, Mar 11, 2008, 11:13 am PDT

    Good article...us men aren't machines. But our responses to these fears are more important than the fears themselves.

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  • 2. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Mar 12, 2008, 11:21 am PDT

    My Boyfriend says his biggest fear in life is that he'll lose me. I think it's a natural fear of being alone. No one likes to be left alone no matter what they say. With Guys all the things that Mr. Zinczenko is true but my be stemmed by the fact that they think we'll leave them or they'll be considered inferior in our eyes. And guys want to be seen as all powerful beings and perfect, but they aren't they're people. and Girlfriends remember that the next time he screws up. It doesn't necessarily mean he's being inconsiderate or doesn't love you. It means that he either just didn't know or is as confused as the next person. Cause ya, HUMAN.

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  • 3. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Mar 12, 2008, 4:50 pm PDT

    What a load of feminazi crap!

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  • 4. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Mar 12, 2008, 4:52 pm PDT

    Women are like buses! If you miss one wait a few minutes there will be another! My fear is that American men are being so dumbned-down as to read this crap! Wake up men! Women in other countries are superior in every aspect! Slap your woman-down!

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  • 5. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Mar 12, 2008, 4:58 pm PDT

    Shouldn't women also be worried about losing her hair, her health, her money, or "failing to perform in the clutch?" Please... useless information! I guess I don't need to subscribe to Men's Health considering all they talk about is what MEN worry about, and our break up lines. swing and a miss!

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  • 6. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Mar 12, 2008, 4:59 pm PDT

    hmmmmm who's the metro sexual who let all this vital info out???

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  • 7. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Mar 12, 2008, 5:10 pm PDT

    Who the "Mr.Teddy Bear Guy" who wrote this article? I'm concerend with how will I comfort my mother, father, my siblings when one of them is no longer with us. I hope my family never needs me, and I'm not able to provide the necessary assisantce ....for what ever reason. I not too worried about loosing my hair..maby I'm shallow or that's too deep.

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  • 8. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Mar 12, 2008, 5:16 pm PDT

    Wow. And I suppose next you'll tell me the sky is blue. Just... wow.

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  • 9. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Mar 12, 2008, 5:18 pm PDT

    Most of those are pretty "DUH" observations.

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  • 10. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Mar 12, 2008, 5:21 pm PDT

    Jeez, This guy should ask men that are in the upper age bracket...We have been through that stuff and it really doesn't hold a candle to the real concerns...HEALTH, not WEALTH...FAMILY, not performing in the CLUTCH..., and do you really care if your child has the first pitch... or has good parents and does well in school and has a meaningful work life? Grow up man!

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  • 11. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Mar 12, 2008, 5:29 pm PDT

    OH MY GOD GET THIS GUY OUT OF HERE HE IS A WOMAN CHECK HIM! MY COUSIN WHO IS TEN ALREADY KNOWS THIS! HE POINTS OUT THE OBVIOUS AND ANY GIRL WHO THINKS THESE ARE GOOD POINTS THERE NOT THEY ARE THE BASICS. ANY MAN WHO WENT THROUGH PUBERTY LEARNED ALL OF THESE GET THIS GUY...SORRY GIRL...WHATEVER IT IS GET EM OUT OF HERE!

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  • 12. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Mar 12, 2008, 5:32 pm PDT

    Isn't losing your hair a sign that your testosterone level is in overdrive? I've read that numerous times. And I believe that to be true as I'm one of those guys who's losing hair AND have a hyper sex drive. Of course I didn't want to lose the hair but that's all trivial now. I'm still highly succesful with the ladies which all still find me very hot & sexy (their words). And as a regular healthy single guy that's all that matters. So if you're a guy who's losing hair BIG DEAL! Just be a man and accept it.

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  • 13. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Mar 12, 2008, 5:34 pm PDT

    and one other thing miss m on front page...what the ****?! that is **** if you think all men just think about what girls are related too then you are full of it. Your never going to get hooked up

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  • 14. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Mar 12, 2008, 5:35 pm PDT

    This is silly. Every man's #1 fear is castration, having the wanger lopped off. Anyone that says otherwise is being less than honest. Ever want to get a man to spill it all? Threaten harm to the jewels--he'll be singing like Pavarotti--or Beverly Sills--or Sanjaya, depending on what'll keep the business in place.

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  • 15. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Mar 12, 2008, 5:35 pm PDT

    Why is it that everytime I read a "Men's top 10 biggest fears" or "Ten things a Man will never tell you about himself" article, (which seems to come out on Yahoo's headlines every other month) they never are the same ten things? I mean from all these lists I've read, there are like 100 things a Man would never tell his woman, and I gotta tell you ladies, if your man has 100 skeletons in his closet then you got the wrong guy! These articles are teach laughable, everybodys their own, no Metrosexual's gonna teach anyone anything about REAL men.

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