4 Instant Intimacy Boosters By David Zinczenko - Posted Tue, Jan 22, 2008, 11:02 am PST

1. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Tue, Jan 22, 2008, 1:27 pm PST

My girl and I like to pretend that we are having a threesome. The third party in the threesome is a pillow. The pillow definitely knows what it is doing...

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2. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Tue, Jan 22, 2008, 6:50 pm PST

Schedule time to be with each other every week. For example, have a date night every week. Go somewhere alone, even if it is cheap or free, enjoy being together away from home or work stresses.

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3. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Tue, Jan 22, 2008, 9:05 pm PST

I wouldn't suggest having sexually explicit IM conversations with your partner at work like this article encourages. Maybe it'll spice up your sex life but it also might get you fired, depending on who you work for.

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4. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jan 23, 2008, 7:10 am PST

Pu-lease! Can we get any more stale than this? Well, maybe Rodney Dangerfield is available for a slight fee, geez! Spice is great, but come on. With these tips even your Mom would tell you to add some cayenne in the recipe! Intimacy is achieved in many ways. So is a spicey fun-filled, behind-closed-doors relationship. From my experience, it starts from the minute you wake up to the minute you shut the door at the end of the day. Stirring the embers of desire is a 24/7 operation, not an instant message or having a cocktail to loosen up. If you use your brain in conjuction with the nether regions, you will be amazed at what hot- molten lava you can create between you two.

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5. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jan 23, 2008, 8:48 am PST

Role playing is a great way to spice things up.With my hubby I've already had wild sex with the "pizza delivery boy", "taboo" sex with my "teacher", I have met him at the door with nothing but his trenchcoat, boots and a smile on. We send erotic text messages on our cell phones throughout the day. Be creative, let loose and find what works for the two of you...it can be free and promises for an exciting evening for both of you!

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6. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jan 23, 2008, 10:51 am PST

I once role-played with my wife that we were a priest and a nun. I was the "dirty priest" and she was the "dirty nun." We held hands for 45 minutes, then we slow-danced. After that we watched TV.

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7. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jan 23, 2008, 1:10 pm PST

Kind of comsee, comsa. A bit thumbs up, ditto down. My first time look doesn't leave me all that impressed.

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8. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jan 23, 2008, 1:14 pm PST

the cyber flirt thing seems to work pretty well for my husband and i.

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9. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jan 23, 2008, 1:15 pm PST

charro I love you!!! you are funny

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10. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jan 23, 2008, 1:20 pm PST

The best move is when you are alone with her and your girl is standing by your side at the table wearing a dress and you put your nhand on the inside of her knee and slowly run your hand up to you know where. It will blow her mind. If she doesn't give you a little you know you are heading for divorce court.

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11. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jan 23, 2008, 1:30 pm PST

just wanted to let you know that my boyfriend and I text eachother its like cyber flirting but we are more used to it and it can build just as much sexual tension and it does a wonder for our relationship

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12. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jan 23, 2008, 1:31 pm PST

Try going to bed together with sexual music playing. Like um.. some sexual healing...

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13. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jan 23, 2008, 1:46 pm PST

Have some drinks and play a board game like Sorry and each time you get sent back you have to take a drink. It's safe because you are not driving and alcohol lowers some peoples inhibitions. Which can make for an interesting night.

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14. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jan 23, 2008, 1:47 pm PST

All the things you talked about are great in a first marriage.But being divorced twice,things will never be the same,no matter how hard you try.When two people meet,and have families,kids parents,and friends, it's real difficult to make things right.I think being alone is the the way I'm going to be.I don't have to contend with disappointment,hurt feelings,why weren't you there for me??? I think I will get another dog,They always love you no matter what...

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15. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jan 23, 2008, 1:48 pm PST

I've had to be away for 4 months and I could not come home so my wife came to visit me. There was a lot of dirty talk that led up tp her visit...you know the rest of the story. NB

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