466. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jul 30, 2008, 4:42 am PDT

Since y surgery from Throat cancer, My face and neck is a mess scars, scar tissue, speach difficulty, ect... My husband will not sleep in the same bed with me, therefore, we have not had any sex in years, I know he still loves me, he says it because he dosen't want to hurt me I tell him he won't. What can I do ?? Very Frustrated.

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467. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jul 30, 2008, 4:50 am PDT

hellow

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468. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jul 30, 2008, 4:55 am PDT

great...learned lots of things about men...useful

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469. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jul 30, 2008, 4:58 am PDT

She ocassionally wears his clothe (shirt) but not the opposite.

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470. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jul 30, 2008, 5:38 am PDT

that's a good note for spouses whose relationship is on the bridge of colapsing.it's a wake up call

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471. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jul 30, 2008, 6:02 am PDT

After 37 yrs married since I was 19, it can get very stale. I am divorced now and sex was part of the undoing.But........sex starts the day before or that morning, NOT a tap on the shoulder. My guy didnt ever get this so was rebuffed many a time after a long day with family responsibilities etc.. A little tenderness, suggestions, etc can get a woman on the path.

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472. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jul 30, 2008, 6:05 am PDT

These are some good suggestions, but won't make a difference if you have a wife who pretty much could live without the sexual part of intimacy. I've tried everything I could think of and the only reason we ever make love is because she is afraid if I don't get sex once every 4 to eight weeks, I might go some place else. If your partner just absolutely doesn't want to be physically intimate with you, there is nothing you can do to change that. Then your only options are learn to live with it, (I don't like to, but do), or make a change.

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473. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Jul 31, 2008, 9:53 am PDT

This article is not helpful in teaching people how to become satisfied. You are actually feeding the problem/disease of consumption and false fulfillment. Pleasure can be found in another but not joy. One can do these things but will inevitably find no pleasure in them and will be again thrust into the circle of dissatisfaction and unfulfillment.

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474. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Sat, Nov 15, 2008, 7:41 am PST

Wonderful tips and advices,worth a tral.

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