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Dave Zinczenko's Mysteries of the Sexes Explained

4 Instant Intimacy Boosters By David Zinczenko - Posted Tue, Jan 22, 2008, 11:02 am PST

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  • 16. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jan 23, 2008, 2:00 pm PST

    How about send her a romantic card at work for no special occasion. Or, meet at a club or bar after work and approach like first time meeting. There are warming body lotions of course and date night across town. Make it a concert. Statistics (mine) show she probably wants to dance.

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  • 17. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jan 23, 2008, 2:03 pm PST

    Way to go hungryman, i'll never look at that pillow quite the same!

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  • 18. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jan 23, 2008, 2:04 pm PST

    How about this for a change. i was married for 15 years. In those years I only spent a few months with the blah's:( Be spontanious. They say that sex starts in the morning. Instead of the peck on the cheeck and a good bye honey. I recomend a long stare in the eyes and a pasoinate kiss in the morning, with the meaningfull (full face) I love you. This will get her thinking of you during the day. It always helps to send a flirty text meesage or something durring the day. Then suprise her with flowers. That's right men Flowers. age old but it always works. Stroke her igo with a rrom of candles and a body message. No matter how many years I was married this allways set me up for a great night of fun in the sack:) Thanks for listening

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  • 19. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jan 23, 2008, 2:06 pm PST

    Go work out at the gym together, then when you get home, hop in the shower together! Works every time!

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  • 20. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jan 23, 2008, 2:09 pm PST

    Read Well!!! Sounds like a winner to me!!! (((smile)))

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  • 21. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jan 23, 2008, 2:16 pm PST

    I'm agree w/ you Terry G... (hahaa) I would love a card, or a text w/ something suggestive! I try and try w/ my husband but his response is minimal because there is alway a football game on, a hockey game or he needs to go to the gym. I am too tired to stay up after working all day, going to school, and cooking dinner, helping three kids w/ homework, finishing my homework & then getting everyone to bed.

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  • 22. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jan 23, 2008, 2:25 pm PST

    I recommend sex "after" the State of the Union Address!! Watching George W. mount that podium is very sexy!!

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  • 23. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jan 23, 2008, 2:28 pm PST

    boooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!

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  • 24. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jan 23, 2008, 2:29 pm PST

    I recommend sex "after" the State of the Union Address!! Watching George W. mount that podium is very sexy!!

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  • 25. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jan 23, 2008, 2:32 pm PST

    I skipped the whole sports thing. :-}

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  • 26. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jan 23, 2008, 2:35 pm PST

    terrible feedback

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  • 27. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jan 23, 2008, 2:37 pm PST

    I acquired a sex swing in her favorite color, purple. Every time she gets on it she giggles like a school girl, and she not much of a giggler. Thats why women always say the most important characteristic of a man is sense of humor. when you make them laugh they pee a little, then your half-way there.

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  • 28. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jan 23, 2008, 2:43 pm PST

    liked it

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  • 29. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jan 23, 2008, 3:05 pm PST

    Instant messaging is a cool idea. Just make sure the message is being sent to your significant other/spouse and not your teenage kid by mistake.

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  • 30. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Jan 23, 2008, 3:13 pm PST

    Man is this guy for real? Having a romantic relationship is mostly about both people respecting one another and trusting one another. You can ride all the roller-coasters you want, but if there is no trust or respect...your roller coaster will only leave you empty. Rather than skipping the state of the union address, we should skip reading garbage articles like this one! Sorry David, but you must really be a dud if you can't get excited about sex with your spouse without having to "stage" some erotic anticdote. Monogomous and loving sex (with a spouse) is better than any of your ideas. The problem with our society today is that people are trying so hard to create some fantasy to enjoy instead of enjoying sex the way God meant for us to enjoy it. I have had sexual experiences that were empty and dry, but that was due to the fact that true love and true respect were not involved. The best sex is between a husband and a wife who truly love and respect eachother because both are more interested in pleasing the other person than themself. Dirty sex leaves emptiness once its over...clean sex between a husband and wife leaves fulfillment and satisfaction that keeps you naturally hungering for more. If you are a lazy lover and need a jump-start, try reading the Song of Solomon (its in the Bible in case you didn't know). God created sex for our enjoyment (Husband and Wife). When we pervert it or glorify it, it will soon become stale and un-fulfilling which will lead to more perverse acts in search of satisfaction.

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