1. Posted by hallbeverly219 on Tue, Jan 15, 2008, 9:09 am PST

it gave myself alittle more insight to the way a man may see thinks

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2. Posted by lisaribblett on Tue, Jan 15, 2008, 10:43 am PST

i agree. this is all pretty much true!!

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3. Posted by wedesignourlives on Tue, Jan 15, 2008, 7:09 pm PST

Why don't you just say it...everyone wants emotional validation and marriage can give you that.

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4. Posted by Thursday on Tue, Jan 15, 2008, 7:44 pm PST

Very Cute

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5. Posted by Dusty on Tue, Jan 15, 2008, 8:34 pm PST

Marriage does not GIVE anyone Emotional validation: What are you trying to convey? If you marry for Emotional Validation, you will be in a heap of problems.

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6. Posted by ChatFriend on Wed, Jan 16, 2008, 8:43 am PST

Look, people (yes, men included) marry for all sorts of reasons. Lasting successful marriages and how to have them is an entirely different subject. Just because you marry for one reason doesn't mean you stay together and succeed, for that same reason. One would hope we all evolve and grow and that the relationship has the capacity to change with the couple. Understanding yourself and what motivates you, is key to being the best partner to the one you love.

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7. Posted by yarelisse07 on Wed, Jan 16, 2008, 8:54 am PST

this is good advice for womens that are really trying to work it out in a relatinship

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8. Posted by mariss y on Wed, Jan 16, 2008, 8:57 am PST

i have doubt if tht really true..but i will try to take this info as a try...

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9. Posted by iamfreetonight . com on Wed, Jan 16, 2008, 9:25 am PST

this is true

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10. Posted by mystery27 on Wed, Jan 16, 2008, 9:27 am PST

Nothing I haven't heard before.

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11. Posted by Jamie Lynn Bush on Wed, Jan 16, 2008, 9:27 am PST

Once again you prove that you have no idea how hetero couples work.

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12. Posted by ericmoncrief1 on Wed, Jan 16, 2008, 9:27 am PST

Bull crap.

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13. Posted by Stacy W on Wed, Jan 16, 2008, 9:28 am PST

Blah, we all knew this already...

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14. Posted by BLAH on Wed, Jan 16, 2008, 9:28 am PST

this is so stupid.

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15. Posted by Troy K on Wed, Jan 16, 2008, 9:28 am PST

I've always found going into a relationship that your potential mate must be baggage free, independent, get into what you want in the bedroom (anal, crazy wild sex) so you don't have to look for it some where else. Good look gents

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