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Why Flirting Can Help Your Relationship By David Zinczenko - Posted Thu, Dec 20, 2007, 1:54 pm PST

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  • 1. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Dec 20, 2007, 8:47 pm PST

    A divorce, will do all the things mentioned in this article. When I need a laugh or things get dull I read David's articles and the comments.and realize how sane I really am. Please keep those articles coming.

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  • 2. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Dec 21, 2007, 1:49 pm PST

    horrible way to look at things, if you are in a relationship and you plan on keeping it never suggest that someone should be trying to seek that attention from anyone else!

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  • 3. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Sat, Dec 22, 2007, 8:56 pm PST

    i like it...hope you can give us tips on how to flirt

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  • 4. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Dec 24, 2007, 7:59 am PST

    ^_^ I agree! Flirting is fun and for some people it just comes natural. I think when you are in a relationship you don’t flirt as much as you know you have the person already! And you know *they* are going to say you look good in that dress, sometimes you even expect it! Having a stranger or an acquaintance say you look good gives you the little reassurance that you still got it, which just makes you feel better! ^_^ I am a flirt by nature, and my boyfriend knows that, and I believe as long as you are honest with yourself and your partner then there is nothing wrong!!

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  • 5. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Tue, Dec 25, 2007, 7:09 pm PST

    My wife went out for a girls night out a few months ago and ended up flirting with some guy at a club. They exchanged phone numbers, she called him and text messaged him, they ended up having sex in our home while I was at work... she dumped our small children off with a friend so she would not be disturbed. The end result of her flirting was that he ended up with her body, I end up divorced, and our children no longer have both parents. I disagree with your column to say the least.

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  • 6. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Tue, Dec 25, 2007, 9:59 pm PST

    I dont think this article is helpfull for us, flirting can be only promoting adultery and disloyal behavior between lovers. its only an excuse for someone who want to commit flirt.

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  • 7. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Tue, Dec 25, 2007, 11:45 pm PST

    #5 If you need tips on how to flirt, you need more than that, you need help. IT does not take much knowledge to know how to flirt, it is also a known fact, when one walks away another steps in. If you have to flirt to get attention, go look at yourself in the mirrow, and go from there.

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  • 8. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Wed, Dec 26, 2007, 5:38 am PST

    i dont know if flirting is a good suggestion...my husband is always flirting with young ladies, im not sure if he had serious affair in any of those girls...but im sure he always flirt with student trainees in his workplace and it left me feeling so cheated.......

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  • 9. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Dec 27, 2007, 10:43 am PST

    I think this has some GREAT points!

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  • 10. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Dec 27, 2007, 5:06 pm PST

    h

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  • 11. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Dec 27, 2007, 5:08 pm PST

    You are a douchebag.....

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  • 12. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Dec 27, 2007, 5:09 pm PST

    Flirting with temptation only leads to a blurred line between right & wrong. One day flirting is ok, then the next step doesn't seem that much of a stretch until you know it you've crossed the line. This mentality is the problem with relationships & all men & women today.

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  • 13. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Dec 27, 2007, 5:09 pm PST

    Thanks for advancing the cheating and break ups of relationships Yahoo. No wonder yall named yourselves Yahoo. You're a bunch of Yahoo's!

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  • 14. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Dec 27, 2007, 5:10 pm PST

    flirting is the devil! a stupid woman must have wrote this..

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  • 15. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Dec 27, 2007, 5:10 pm PST

    that's rediculous! especially the use pent up energy from someone else on your spouse.....if my husband did that he'd be in for it.

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