1. Posted by on Wed, Dec 05, 2007, 12:26 am PST

Extremely helpful and it was much appreciated....... Surprising to the fact everything in there was true....... WOW...... that's amazing......yet outstanding facts at the same time.......

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2. Posted by pearlysgirl21 on Wed, Dec 05, 2007, 9:41 am PST

It was ok....

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3. Posted by Leonard H on Wed, Dec 05, 2007, 9:46 am PST

OK, now tell us how to improve the old model of our wife.

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4. Posted by rmoore0715@sbcglobal.net on Wed, Dec 05, 2007, 9:50 am PST

Unbelievable. What ever happened to accepting your partner for who and what they are. No wonder there's a 50 percent divorce rate in this country. Let's continue to focus on the exterior. How shallow and sad.

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5. Posted by JP on Wed, Dec 05, 2007, 9:58 am PST

It's not wrong to pay as much attention to the outside appearance as to the inner person you fell in love with. Physical attraction is the primary attraction, and sex is one of the main reasons relationships are formed--if not the main reason. Both partners owe it to each other to keep themselves as attractive as possible, inside and out. Good article.

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6. Posted by Roger on Wed, Dec 05, 2007, 10:03 am PST

how about the "other" partner....AKA....the wife????

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7. Posted by astagnaro@sbcglobal.net on Wed, Dec 05, 2007, 10:09 am PST

Yeah, women really need ideas on "sneaky" ways to help them change their partner. I find this disturbing. A woman that would do this type of stuff is not worth dating or marrying. I'd love to see a companion piece on making over your girl: 1. Lipo for those cottage cheese thighs and butt 2. Breast augmentation for flat chest 3. Therapy/medication for her relationship isecurities 4. Therapy for her dislike of sex 5. Therapy for her materialistic/shopping fixations 6. Therapy for her so she can get along with your family and freinds 7. Therapy for her so she is not so manipulative See a trend here?

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8. Posted by bruce b on Wed, Dec 05, 2007, 10:12 am PST

A very interesting approach to things, overall a good article. I find that honest oppinions are better then trying the sneek attack

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9. Posted by Merc on Wed, Dec 05, 2007, 10:26 am PST

A nice way of getting your mate back into shape is if you have any older pictures, you can pull them out and look through them together. You don't even have to mention anything about wieght.

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10. Posted by Merc on Wed, Dec 05, 2007, 10:27 am PST

In general...why is everyone so negitive when they reply. Let's keep things on a positive note...shall we?

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11. Posted by raesday on Wed, Dec 05, 2007, 10:30 am PST

Let's be honest: Would you really listen to your wife or girlfriend (a serious one, not just your one night stand girl, or fascination of a few months) if they told you, Hey! You need to lose some weight? Probably not. Kudos if you would! I wouldn't do it if my husband or boyfriend did it to me! But little changes, "Sneaky" ways of incorporating ideas and new habits into a life can make things easier. I've said to my husband, "I want to start eating healthier". I've begun to cook healthier dinners for us. I said to him, "Hey do you want to work out with me?" and now we've joined the local community gym. -- I would never even consider a relationship with a person who doesn't take me as I am, but I'm all for improving, together, what we have! I'm attracted to my man because he's intelligent, funny, and cares deeply for me! He's attractive to me, I'm attractive to him, but we both know there's room for improvement. -- To Astagnaro: I hope you don't marry until you grow up more! At this point, any woman you get will probably not be appreciated by you at all! Reading your post scared the dickens out of me for the people you will date or have dated! Grow up!

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12. Posted by lstmary@sbcglobal.net on Wed, Dec 05, 2007, 10:44 am PST

Oh Brother. What drivel.

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13. Posted by Madalin Leviathan on Wed, Dec 05, 2007, 10:57 am PST

it is really true... the best ways to get to someone without hurting him or her... and i think this works with the ladies too..

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14. Posted by Ric R on Wed, Dec 05, 2007, 11:05 am PST

TRIPE mindless tripe.

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15. Posted by sewhappyj on Wed, Dec 05, 2007, 11:08 am PST

This is sooooo wrong! I can't even get him to consider scent! And the eat this, not that game? NEVER! And my man naps all the time and it does not increase our sex life! If anything he is much better when we stay up late. He is not one of those, catnap kind of guys. When he is asleep, he's OUT! Also, plain is not the problem in his wardrobe. He'd wear nothing but white shirts and black pants if he had the choice. You are way way off here.

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