To message #20 - everyone might flip out but whatever - I think that if you know Gods love and how he loves ALL OF US unconditionally, then you can follow his footsteps and love your husband or wife unconditionally. Those are vows we take and are suppost to commit to when we get married. I do agree with Daves blog to some extent. I would think that the majority of everyone here has been threatened to some extent whether it'd be a co-worker or the "just friends" thing and probubly some other situations that should arise that weren't mentioned. It is a hurtful world out there, no doubt about that, relationships are hard to maintain, whether its romantic or not. Thats the way it is. But I believe that you must trust your partner unless given a reason otherwise. Jealousy is a big factor that plays in this. If you are insecure with yourself, then you will question the beautiful blonde who answers the phones in your husbands work place or the handsome man who gives your wife things to file. It is natural to feel insecure at times, everyone goes through these emotions, however, it is not good to hound or bark at your partner just because someone attractive works with or for them. That causes unessasary anxiety and stress on your partner and then they just might actually start to look at that attractive person your complaining about and wonder "whats all the fuss about" when they werent even looking in the first place. As far as the friend thing goes, I believe that if your partner was friends with this person before they even met you than it will probubly go no further than that, otherwise, wouldn't they be with them? Ofcourse it is natural to wonder, what would it be like to be with that person who has been my friend all these years, the thought probubly did cross their mind at one point or another, and it still might while they are in a relationship with you. But being a man or a woman, we all still have eyes and sex organs, its just natural to look and wonder. As long as they dont act upon their thoughts. We are all just human, but should remain faithful to the one who we have chosen to spend our time and love and life with. Just take care of each other and act unselfishly in providing the love and emotional support your partner needs. Always listen, even if you are tired and dont feel like it. Give your partner the sex he or she needs and if you dont like to do something they do like, do it anyway to please them. Women, spice up your marraige, get dressed up with no where to go, do your hair and makeup and when your husband comes home, make him a good dinner, let him eat in peace without complaining about anything, and then jump his bones. Men, go out and get that dress or those beautiful earings your wife was looking at. Pay attention to her likes and her feelings. Take her in your arms and make wild love to her after shes in awe that you took the time to care or are even interested in the way she looks for you. Go out with one another, even if your tired and the kids drove you crazy all day long and you have to pay your electic bill next week. Have fun !!!! Get alittle tipsy and go home and make love to one another and remember why you both fell in love in the first place. Or just say the words I LOVE YOU, for no reason at all, just to say it so they know. Dont nag each other, if there is a problem, sit down with one another, hold hands from across your kitchen table and find a solution together, whether its an insecurity or a financial difficulty. Problems are always solvable if you both work on them together and stick to your plans of fixing your problems. Even if you think your partners problem is "stupid", its something that THEY are feeling and should be acknowledged. Unconditional, unselfish love. It is obtainable and ofcourse there will always be something that annoys you about someone, but you came together for good reasons, keep the good alive and
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