2821. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Sun, Aug 26, 2007, 2:29 pm PDT

i agree with all your ideas but i got to ask you a question see me and my guy friend been talkin for a while on myspace and we all ready know each other and stuff but every blue moon i holla at my ex and i'll admit he was a mistake but i keep holla at him and saying hi i wonder should i take him of my myspace and stop going back to old flames and get on with my life? please tell and if u can please e-mail me to: luvaluva253@yahoo.com please get back with your answer love olivia

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2822. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Sun, Aug 26, 2007, 2:49 pm PDT

in my opinion/case hes the one that is killing the relationship.........when you take the time to go outside and disconnect the phone line to keep me off line.........wow thats overboard

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2823. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Sun, Aug 26, 2007, 4:00 pm PDT

don't forget the self employedn business owner and a potential client whom they spend alot of time with

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2824. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Sun, Aug 26, 2007, 6:19 pm PDT

You forgot family members that would be right up there with co-worker and ex's.

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2825. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, Aug 27, 2007, 7:04 pm PDT

THIS ARTICLE IS DEFINITELY AN EYE OPENER FOR ALL THE MEN OUT THERE THAT THINK SHE'S THE ONE, WHEN ACTUALLY THE PEOPLE IN OUR RELATIONSHIP ARE EXACTLY WHAT OUR INTENTIONS WERE FOR THEM, I.E (SEX, FRIEND, MARRIAGE). FACE IT WE DESPISE REJECTION AND ARE DRAWN TO OUR OWN INTENTIONS AND DESIRES VS. THE LINKS THAT MAKE LONG TERM RELATIONSHIPS WORK, MONEY, TIME, SITUATION, AND COMMON LIKES & DISLIKES.

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2826. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Tue, Aug 28, 2007, 9:36 pm PDT

I have my fiance and we are going to get married next month. I just discovered that he has a friend (supposely) and it's a girl. She calls him on the cell phone or he does to her. He says that he is not having an affair with her that they are just friends. The other day I found two condoms in his wallet and a few weeks later they are not there. I don't tell him that i found them cause he will get mad. He has not been late to the house at night but during the day I work and he goes with his kids and then school. I don't know what to think or do. He said to trust him that he want's to have friends only girl,but nothing out of there help what do you think?

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2827. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Sat, Sep 01, 2007, 7:34 pm PDT

Its all true, lol.

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2828. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Tue, Sep 11, 2007, 3:12 pm PDT

very true! as always, very insightful info...

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2829. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Dec 27, 2007, 5:59 pm PST

as far as the opposite sex friend...oh yes this is a big threat , if not the worse for me...this actually happened to me. my fiance joined myspace and met this girl online, started meeting up with her at concerts without me and she had her claws out from the getgo. sending him emails all day long, even having the nerve to call him at night at our home. believe me he was no angel either, he played it off with me saying she was just a friend, but they were more than that from the start. from the emails she sent him, she was getting tooooo personal with her questions and the worse part is, he was answering them!! all the time, claiming that they only spoke about music. well needless to say, she broke us up and now he has moved out and they are together. beware of those opposite sex friendships, especially online ones, because the temptation and the lure of the grass is greener, is always there and lets face it, there are a lot of people out there who are not nice and dont care who they hurt on their path of getting what they want.

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2830. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Mar 14, 2008, 1:08 am PDT

My Boyfriend has created a virtual world ( inside the computer) where he is not only brillant but the one person everyone wants to be. he is always telling me about all the girls who want him and who want to be me. But it is like I don't even exist at all except to pay the bills and to take care of the pets and the house and the car. I think it's time to go......sooner rather than later......

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2831. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, May 19, 2008, 12:06 am PDT

wow you really are right on with all your advice and knowledge. Thank you so much, I have a new favorite site...

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2832. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Mon, May 19, 2008, 12:14 am PDT

Here are my thoughts on this article. If a man says he loves his woman why should he be wondering what the next woman would be like? Why would he need to look at another womans naked body, when he sleeps with his woman every night or however often they have sex. By doing these things, does it mean he truely is not satisfied with who he has and what his life is all about? Men who tell their wives or girlfriends that they dont check out other women, or pursue other women, or even lust over other attractive women, when in fact they do, should be single in the first place. Why would any smart, successful woman want to waste her time on such a manipulative, selfish, dishonest man? Hopefully the women who feel those things are okay, have a happy marriage someday.

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2833. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, May 29, 2008, 10:14 am PDT

People will do what they want to do. If they are going to cheat then they will cheat. There is no sense in worrying yourself sick over it. Besides if they are the cheating kind then it is better to find out early on then wasting so much of your time on a relationship that was bound to fail anyway. I say give them all the opportunity to cheat that you can. Then you will find out sooner then later what kind of a person they are. If they cheat then your better off without them and if they don't then you no you wont have to worry about them or doubt the love they have for you. If they don't feel your worthy of true love then move on and find someone who recognizes your value and worth as a person.

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