1. Posted by Lyn on Tue, Mar 20, 2007, 12:28 pm PDT

Having been divorced now for almost four years and having been in long term relationships for most of my life, I have never really experienced the dating scene until two years ago. This was a complete eye opener in many ways, especially about my own self discovery. Fortunately, I experiencd alot of first/last dates. Unfortunately, after giving each one a true chance and an open heart all were "dumped".I have found many really did not know what they truly wanted, but were quite clear as to what they did not want.Most were still caught up on blaming the person in their last relationship. I look at it like this people enter into our lives sometimes for a reason, sometimes a season, and some a lifetime. There is always something to learn from another as long as you are open to receiving the message even when hurt, disappointment, and "dumping" is involved.

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2. Posted by smiley on Tue, Mar 20, 2007, 2:07 pm PDT

if a woman shows she cares, it is a deal breaker. you just have to learn to not care, or at least not show you care. as soon as they think they have you, they become a different person.

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3. Posted by os1spain on Tue, Mar 20, 2007, 2:38 pm PDT

Dump him: If you can't stand his mother. It will only come back to haunt you later if you don't.

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4. Posted by Abigial on Tue, Mar 20, 2007, 6:59 pm PDT

I like these opions

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5. Posted by Karen M on Tue, Mar 20, 2007, 7:16 pm PDT

Exactly to all.

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6. Posted by SGRBGR on Tue, Mar 20, 2007, 10:02 pm PDT

What about a myspace where he says he is single, he says its all for fun,,, I found out different he left himself s/n on my puter and seems its not so much just for fun.. what to do should I tell him I have it. and confront him or wait and see what happens

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7. Posted by os1spain on Wed, Mar 21, 2007, 12:26 am PDT

Be careful. Things like that are a prelude to cheating. How much can your heart take? There are women who can "work it out" with their men, (one of them being our next Pres.) and there are others who will not be able to ever find that trust in their partner again. Only you can decide what type of person that you are, if you can stand it enough to confront him and get help for the 2 of you, or if you would do better just walking out on that relationship in favor of one where ou don't constantly second guess everything that comes out of his mouth.

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8. Posted by tin g on Wed, Mar 21, 2007, 5:44 am PDT

This one's nice. It's an eye-opener. Keep it up. =)

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9. Posted by on Wed, Mar 21, 2007, 5:45 am PDT

Give me a break already. You actually get paid to write this sophomoric junk? Stop with all this "men and women are differeent psychobabble".

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10. Posted by on Wed, Mar 21, 2007, 5:45 am PDT

Give me a break already. You actually get paid to write this sophomoric junk? Stop with all this "men and women are differeent psychobabble".

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11. Posted by on Wed, Mar 21, 2007, 5:49 am PDT

More psychobabble by a writer that wants a paycheck more than writing something of import. All of these sophomoric articles about generalized differences between men and women are harmful to everyone. People looking to break up over little reasons are not mature enough to be in a serious relationship. Dump him because you don't like his mother? How childish. That isn't love.

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12. Posted by on Wed, Mar 21, 2007, 5:50 am PDT

Give me a break already. You actually get paid to write this sophomoric junk? Stop with all this "men and women are differeent psychobabble".

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13. Posted by ahmedhaalireza on Wed, Mar 21, 2007, 5:57 am PDT

i say this ...a woman who is not giving head or not giving head on demand or giving head without a heart behind it or not giving as willingly as before is a woman who will lose the man to the one that does all these things...

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14. Posted by magnaper on Wed, Mar 21, 2007, 5:57 am PDT

Thank you for those wonderful observations about men, love and sex Mine is just a worry about men who always drop a relationship outside a relationship once you get them involved in a relationship. By this i mean, you prove to your partner that you have someone outside marriage for example, and immediately he drops her to getting another one new.

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15. Posted by magnaper on Wed, Mar 21, 2007, 5:58 am PDT

Thank you for those wonderful observations about men, love and sex Mine is just a worry about men who always drop a relationship outside a relationship once you get them involved in a relationship. By this i mean, you prove to your partner that you have someone outside marriage for example, and immediately he drops her to getting another one new.

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