What Makes Men Fall in Love? By David Zinczenko - Posted Thu, Mar 15, 2007, 11:34 am PDT

1. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Mar 15, 2007, 12:02 pm PDT

Nice to know. I had a friend recently tell me that friendship is the most important thing to him in a relationship. I agree, I want my best friend!

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2. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Mar 15, 2007, 12:22 pm PDT

women happy being women. women respecting and appreciating men being men. quit trying to reform yourself or anyone else. just be yourself with a little civility and respect thrown every now and then. that's a turn on.

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3. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Mar 15, 2007, 1:00 pm PDT

Ladies - be a go-getter! Girlfriends with which I've fallen in love have all been go-getters. The first time my current gf spent the night she woke up early, cleaned my house and made me breakfast in bed. Since we’ve moved in I enjoy breakfast almost every morning without even having to tell her to cook it! She ALWAYS has dinner ready when I get home. I work long hours and I never hear her complain when I come home late and ask her to reheat my meal. She also goes to the gym on a regular basis (sometimes it takes some strong words to make sure she complies) and always completes the chores I assign her. She isn’t as pretty as a lot of girls, but with her great body (thanks to the diet I’ve assigned her) and her go-get’em attitude she definitely makes up for it. Men: If you find an old fashioned girl like my HOLD ON TO HER. They don’t come along that often!

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4. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Mar 15, 2007, 1:00 pm PDT

Ladies - be a go-getter! Girlfriends with which I've fallen in love have all been go-getters. The first time my current gf spent the night she woke up early, cleaned my house and made me breakfast in bed. Since we’ve moved in I enjoy breakfast almost every morning without even having to tell her to cook it! She ALWAYS has dinner ready when I get home. I work long hours and I never hear her complain when I come home late and ask her to reheat my meal. She also goes to the gym on a regular basis (sometimes it takes some strong words to make sure she complies) and always completes the chores I assign her. She isn’t as pretty as a lot of girls, but with her great body (thanks to the diet I’ve assigned her) and her go-get’em attitude she definitely makes up for it. Men: If you find an old fashioned girl like my HOLD ON TO HER. They don’t come along that often!

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5. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Mar 15, 2007, 1:31 pm PDT

Seems to me... what I thought was going to be an article about what makes a man fall in love was the usual what a women needs to do to have a man article.

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6. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Mar 15, 2007, 1:59 pm PDT

MY DAUGHTER HAS HAD ME WONDERING HOW SHE WRAPPED THAT SPECIAL GUY AROUND HER WITH SO MUCH LOVE. YOUR ARTICLE JUST EXPLAINED. THANKS.

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7. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Mar 15, 2007, 2:06 pm PDT

You've got to be kidding me! Are you real or just controlling?

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8. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Mar 15, 2007, 2:43 pm PDT

The first three comments apply to men too. I've been looking for a man with such qualities. And I have good taste in ties already...

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9. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Mar 15, 2007, 3:34 pm PDT

Very awesome article. Brought up some points I didn't realize.

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10. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Mar 15, 2007, 3:42 pm PDT

Very insightful.

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11. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Mar 15, 2007, 4:47 pm PDT

# 3,4, this from a man, first off if the lady had just spent her first night with you she should have found the house clean, not get up and clean it while you are still in bed. Secondly if she wants to serve you breakfast in bed fine, but you should be willing to serve her breakfast in bed just as often, turn about fair play. finally don't go to assigning chores, you should be more than willing to get in and do some of the work for yourself and for her nothing should be for the other to do, just whoever happens to get to it first. or in many cases you could get off your fat bottom and do it all just to show her you care. would be the manly approach.

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12. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Mar 15, 2007, 7:01 pm PDT

I read the comments posted in #'s 3&4. I kept waiting for the punch line, but, I guess that wasn't the joke, the person who wrote it is.

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13. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Mar 15, 2007, 7:28 pm PDT

#3 EWEEEWWWEEE 2 U buddy. No man assigns anything to me, period. You are discusting. You aren't in a relationship, why don't you hire a maid. I wouldn't get near you with a 20 foot pole, other than to shove it up your b*tt. What a complete *ss you are. I feel sorry for the slave you think of as a girl friend. You are a classless, needless, oink!

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14. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Mar 15, 2007, 7:32 pm PDT

#11 WWW, I absolutely love your post to the 3,4 double *ss. Where does he get off treating a sister like that? He needs one swift kick in the front end of his buttocks! LOLOL

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15. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Mar 15, 2007, 7:38 pm PDT

#12, he's a total looser, don't waste advise on a "I'm holier than thou" POS!

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