16. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Nov 30, 2006, 10:26 pm PST

#12 ash: Seem like your ego has been bruised. For your info 1500 men women= 7 persons /day. Is she a street walker??? Don't go blame all the " fragile females " as you say; rather blame yourself for being part of the deal!!! As well as for yourself if you don't go stray, you won't meet the same kind. You see, when we live in a clean surrounding, that's our kind of people we meet, clean. Mic.

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17. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, Nov 30, 2006, 10:32 pm PST

not sorry for twice.I finished late tonight. Thought it wasn't gone!. G'night all. Mic.

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18. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Dec 01, 2006, 5:52 am PST

#12-1500 Men? OMG! She stays busy! I thought it was bad when this girl, that I really barely new tells me her throb story of being with her friends husband who supposely they have future plans to marry. Anyway, she told me she had been with 18 guys and that was two years ago. I love sex, but don't think its cool to go around having sex with everyone you meet. It is hard. But we have to develop temperance. And don't allow our minds to think on it. Im single so I have to just keep busy.lol

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19. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Dec 01, 2006, 5:53 am PST

Welcome David! Glad to see a new face! Look forward to the new topics.

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20. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Dec 01, 2006, 5:58 am PST

#25 corrections (knew) lol also i dont mean keep busy sexually, keep my mind busy with more fruitful things. Like I am reconsidering going back to school.

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21. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Dec 01, 2006, 6:20 am PST

IT IS ALL ABOUT CONCENTRATION AND A FULLFILLED SOUL ! AND HAVING A GOOD HEART , WHICH IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING ! IF YOU HAVE THESE THREE YOU WILL NOT CHEAT (BOTH WOMEN AND MEN)

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22. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Dec 01, 2006, 7:10 am PST

eser-I totally agree.We are always trying to fulfil this void. I've also found out, that when you find a True Love, it seems to change alot of things. I have learned alot from actually finding out how it feels to be IN LOVE. Now I have to watch it because I am trying to fill that void that He fulfilled with someone that I dont like. Me and my sister had a really good talk, on my visit to her. As Iwas examinining my past marriage and a guy i was engaged to. I realized I made myself like them, sounds stupid huh? I just didn't know why I was always turning every guy down, none seem to do anything for me. So I picked someone I THOUGHT would be a good, faithful husband and provider for out future children. Wrong! Then I fell in love. Also found out that (at least for me) Love makes you do stupid things. I look back at the last couple of years and it actually embarrasses me. My behavior, OMG! But I am finding balance now, THANK GOD. I let him go, but he will always have a VERY SPECIAL PLACE IN MY LIFE. I was told by this Dr. That I have been seeing to find a male friend. Friend only. Well, Im not having luck there either. I've been talking with this guy, and I have made it VERY CLEAR that we are just friends. I told him I had to get over another love and I just wanted a friend. He agreed. Enjoy talking with him. He is actually encouraging me on going back to school and etc. The problem is he told me He is starting to like me ALOT! So do I end this friendship? I dont wont to break his heart. Yet, when I tell him well we should quit being friends, He Freaks out! I always seem to get into relationships like this. Very confused!

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23. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Dec 01, 2006, 8:36 am PST

#28 i agree very much if a man cheats or a woman it is because they are not happy and if they are not happy then they should be honest to their partners and to themselves. if u love some one u will be true and not need some one else i have been with my boyfriend for 6 yrs. and we may not have the best relationship but i know that i love him and i dont have to run to other men to be happy i will always stay honest to myself

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24. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Dec 01, 2006, 9:47 am PST

I belive that the issue at hand is rooted in a man's (or woman's)priorities in accordance with God's will for mankind. God has given each of us free will, and it is our choice what to do with it. As a young man, I was what one could consider a womanizer, but I made up in my mind early on that when I got married I would change, and I vowed never to cheat on my wife, because we reap what we sow, and God is not pleased with adultery. After two years in marriage, I have not cheated nor do I have any desire to cheat. Temptation does come, and women seem to flirt harder, my wife and I are not the perfect couple, but I understand what is important in my life, and I am determined to maintain. To the men who have cheated, God wants you to turn from your sin. It is not impossible. If you have faith that God will take care of whatever problems you have, just stand strong on your faith. We are men, not weaklings without backbones. Stand up and be the example for your children, and lift up your wife, don't tear her down. This goes for women as well. Don't think that your husband is superman, and don't tear him down with your words. Instead speak according to how you want them to be (if you want good and not bad). God bless.

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25. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Dec 01, 2006, 10:48 am PST

Another reason many men in our country (USA) cheat is because so many women walk around looking like they are sexually available. The same goes for women who get hit on by so many men. There are no moral repercussions in our Christian nation(s) for such actions. Quite the contrary, the media (our new God) promotes and encourages it.

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26. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Dec 01, 2006, 5:21 pm PST

robertbcool: I just love you ! ! ! Mic.

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27. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Dec 01, 2006, 6:13 pm PST

ptb, its a free counrty, maybe you could wear a berka, maybe you can find one in sack cloth.

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28. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Dec 01, 2006, 9:05 pm PST

OOOOhhhh, David...where did you come from??? Let me now read your post...just couldn't help to comment...

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29. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Dec 01, 2006, 9:10 pm PST

OK, just let me say this. I was with a "cheater" for 10 years, thought he would change.don't even tell me for one minute that I didn't know he was with some one else. female flora doesn't mix.yeast infections every time.not stupid anymore.

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30. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Dec 01, 2006, 9:25 pm PST

And...BTW...Welcome David...

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