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Stressed Out By Your Man? By Lucy Danziger, SELF Editor-in-Chief - Posted Fri, May 23, 2008, 2:43 pm PDT

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  • 1. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Sat, May 24, 2008, 11:50 am PDT

    yes my husband is the blame for my anger. he doesn't do anything as a family, when he's home there is no talking to me, we don't sleep in the same bed , also there is no sex, he doesn't tell me he loves me, he doesn't tell me if i'm pretty, he's to busy hiding things behind my back, talking about me. so yes he is to blame. i want a divorce but he always has to use the kids as weapons toward me

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  • 2. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Sun, May 25, 2008, 2:42 pm PDT

    There is a lot of tension between my boyfriend and I. We get into it almost everyday. Even this morning, he made me feel like I was stupid, irresponsible, and childish because of how I spend my money. I feel like that there should be no reason for him to sit up here and analyze what I spend in MY bank account. He told me that it had to be said and didn't even bother to apologize to me.

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  • 3. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Sun, May 25, 2008, 2:42 pm PDT

    There is a lot of tension between my boyfriend and I. We get into it almost everyday. Even this morning, he made me feel like I was stupid, irresponsible, and childish because of how I spend my money. I feel like that there should be no reason for him to sit up here and analyze what I spend in MY bank account. He told me that it had to be said and didn't even bother to apologize to me.

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  • 4. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Sun, May 25, 2008, 2:42 pm PDT

    There is a lot of tension between my boyfriend and I. We get into it almost everyday. Even this morning, he made me feel like I was stupid, irresponsible, and childish because of how I spend my money. I feel like that there should be no reason for him to sit up here and analyze what I spend in MY bank account. He told me that it had to be said and didn't even bother to apologize to me.

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  • 5. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Sun, May 25, 2008, 2:43 pm PDT

    There is a lot of tension between my boyfriend and I. We get into it almost everyday. Even this morning, he made me feel like I was stupid, irresponsible, and childish because of how I spend my money. I feel like that there should be no reason for him to sit up here and analyze what I spend in MY bank account. He told me that it had to be said and didn't even bother to apologize to me.

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  • 6. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Sun, May 25, 2008, 2:43 pm PDT

    There is a lot of tension between my boyfriend and I. We get into it almost everyday. Even this morning, he made me feel like I was stupid, irresponsible, and childish because of how I spend my money. I feel like that there should be no reason for him to sit up here and analyze what I spend in MY bank account. He told me that it had to be said and didn't even bother to apologize to me.

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  • 7. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, May 29, 2008, 9:44 am PDT

    Good information! I use the 10 second rule. Before I lash out in anger and say something I might regret latter I count slowly to ten. If I step back and say to myself that's interesting and take a look at his perspective then I can proceed in love not in anger. I know this may sound biased but the truth is that a great number of women have to wear many hats these days. I don't mean to exclude the men, in fact guys this information could be extremely beneficial to you. The fact of the matter is many women are under a lot of stress having to be moms, housekeepers, income earners and even parental caretakers at the same time. No wonder we have mood swings and feel tired most of the time! Not to mention the hormonal changes we have to endure which include headaches, cramps, hot flashes and more. Well, I've discovered an amazing natural product that I call women's little helper. I've even had husbands call me to thank me for telling their wives about this. They said it saved their marriage! You can learn all about it at; http://meno-relief.com

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  • 8. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Thu, May 29, 2008, 9:45 am PDT

    Good information! I use the 10 second rule. Before I lash out in anger and say something I might regret latter I count slowly to ten. If I step back and say to myself that's interesting and take a look at his perspective then I can proceed in love not in anger. I know this may sound biased but the truth is that a great number of women have to wear many hats these days. I don't mean to exclude the men, in fact guys this information could be extremely beneficial to you. The fact of the matter is many women are under a lot of stress having to be moms, housekeepers, income earners and even parental caretakers at the same time. No wonder we have mood swings and feel tired most of the time! Not to mention the hormonal changes we have to endure which include headaches, cramps, hot flashes and more. Well, I've discovered an amazing natural product that I call women's little helper. I've even had husbands call me to thank me for telling their wives about this. They said it saved their marriage! You can learn all about it at; http://meno-relief.com

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  • 9. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Jun 20, 2008, 8:41 am PDT

    THIS DOES HAPPEN BUT YOU CAN NOTBLAME ANYONE FOR GETTING UPSET,A START TAKING MORE TIME FOR YOUR SELF,WE ALL HAVE THINGS TO DEAL WITH .

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  • 10. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Jul 25, 2008, 3:17 pm PDT

    I really hate to say this...but there's no underlying reasons behind my. It's HIM all the way. I love him but he drives me crazy with his never listening, know it all-arrogant attitude. Do all men think they know everything or is it just mine? Sometimes talking to him feels like a waste of time!!!

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  • 11. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Fri, Jul 25, 2008, 3:19 pm PDT

    I really hate to say this...but there's no underlying reasons behind my. It's HIM all the way. I love him but he drives me crazy with his never listening, know it all-arrogant attitude. Do all men think they know everything or is it just mine? Sometimes talking to him feels like a waste of time!!!

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  • 12. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Sun, Jul 27, 2008, 4:32 am PDT

    To #11. I find most women think THEY know everything, and then get upset when you disagree. My wife and I agree to disagree. Sometimes it's a matter of opinion, and I think autonomy is a good thing in marriage. So maybe YOUR the one who thinks she knows everything and that's why he's decided to just not listen as opposed to a fight......

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  • 13. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Sat, Aug 02, 2008, 9:02 pm PDT

    women should learn how to take a step back sometimes when it comes to things or people that tend to stress them out;take a breather,some time off.it takes a healthy,happy woman to keep the family strong,happy & healthy,too.great article,tnx.

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  • 14. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Sun, Sep 28, 2008, 9:33 am PDT

    I am stressed out as a father but i don't flip out on my wife about little things. She flips out about ( oh u forgot to put the garadge door down or stuff like that) I agree alot of women do more not saying all. oh and another thing that pissed me of is when u get upset at them for snappin they cry just think how they make us feel, but they don't care or understand.

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  • 15. Posted by A Yahoo! Health User on Sun, Sep 28, 2008, 9:34 am PDT

    I am stressed out as a father but i don't flip out on my wife about little things. She flips out about ( oh u forgot to put the garadge door down or stuff like that) I agree alot of women do more not saying all. oh and another thing that pissed me of is when u get upset at them for snappin they cry just think how they make us feel, but they don't care or understand.

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