Hi there, I'm 38, 17 months from surgery and counting... Yes, early detection is definitely the most important thing about cancer. 1-Please don't be afraid. The cancer usually takes YEARS (3~10) to grow to 1cm! 2-Mammogram - area with many small irregular circles is a concern, but if they are far from each other and regular, your chances of negative is very good 3- There are some other (benign and common) breast problems (usually they are the painful ones, so usually pain is not a symptom for earlier stages) 4-Sentinel node is a good choice. 5-Do your homework about breast cancer and symptoms but also get a nice distance from it time to time (get busy). 6- Everybody (men, women, young, old) can develop breast cancer, but the percentages very a lot. 7-Always bring your questions written down to the doc visits and never leave any question behind. 8- Third, fourth opinion is a good thing. You do have time for it! But stop there and decide. By now you probably know a lot about breast cancer. So make a wise decision. 9- You know your body better then other people, including your doctor. Listen to it and use this information well. 10- If you want to, you may hit a wall with anger but your hands will get hurt back. Itfs better if you take about 10 minutes everyday (set a time) to get your anger out, but use an alarm clock or a very nice friend to listen your complains during these 10 minutes.@ (Friendsc listen carefully, but do not interrupt the 10 min, just AGREE with every statement, but bring up the good part of it, with sympathy but never with pity or sorrow. Take mental notes and after the avalanche had passed reinforce the good points discarding the absurd ones. (Ex: I am dying and I did nothing all my life! Everybody DID good thing and he/she is NOT dying, there are many steps to go through and plenty do be done. Some days we do more interesting things then others, itfs up to us to make it full of pleasure or full of sorrow.)@ 11-Now stand up, open your arms, look up, deep breath, smile and complete the sentence "Today I am going to ------------------just for my pleasure for it is a wonderful day and got plenty to do." Our moods are directly the response of our own thoughts. We must take responsibly for it. Nobody else can do it! Think positive. PS. I am 38, survivor and trying to get pregnant again. (I have a 9ys old daughter) Crazy? MaybecBut I am having fun! Also I am planning to go for Master degreecPlenty to doc What about you?
Please tell us your plans........Good Luck!
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